That is rather true. I noticed that on dating sites many years ago. So, I get where you are coming from.
Yes really. If you see the types who say black only on dating sites it's not pretty. Ask some black male friends
So, you do know that I'm not the only one on here who has put that on our dating profiles at some point. I definitely am NOT what you described.
I don't think he is implying that. It can just be a red flag of caution for those that have had those bad experiences.
Exactly. More often than not it's usually the case. I spent a good eight years in on dating sites. I know of what I speak
Yup. To be honest if I ever find myself single again no more online dating. It's absolutely awful for men. I work better in real life anyway.
Online dating for men sucks. Big time for men. The problem is so many women are so deluded. I always say this. Here is the secret to landing and keeping a man. 1. Spend most of your free time into improving your appearance. 2. Lower your standards. Any possible problem a girl has with a guy is because she’s not hot enough for him. It’s as simple as that. If a man feels that she is much hotter than him, that she is “out of his league,” he will pursue her with everything he’s got and want to wife her up. Any questions? “But I really like this guy and he doesn’t like me.” You’re not hot enough. Spend more time into improving your appearance and then lower your standards. “I work with this guy named Trevor. I give him a lot of signals but he doesn’t ask me out. What’s the deal?” You’re not hot enough. Spend more time into improving your appearance and then lower your standards. “Guys only want to have sex with me. What do I have to do to get into a relationship?” You’re not hot enough. Spend more time into improving your appearance and then lower your standards. Online you got 6 rating girls who look like 5s with their flip flops and short hair trying to snag an 8 guy. Get a 4 guy, wrap him around your finger, and be thankful you don’t have to buy any more cats. The problem of finding a man has nothing to do with there not being “good men” left in the world. The problem is that women have grown up in a fantasy culture that teaches them that they can get a man more rich and handsome than they are pretty, something that has not regularly happened in the course of human history.
I barely watched the video. (have no patience for stuff like that.) But anyway, what ryan says above ^ is 100% true & well put.
TDK, where the heck are you seeing stuff like that? Really --"profile after profile"? I think 99.99% of black women would not put that. 99% of white women wouldn't feel the need to put that. Asians probably wouldn't (though I can see them advertising for white guys specifically...). Maybe some latinas would put that. Anyway, I think any women how shout stuff like that in their profile are specifically trying to insult bm (and win the love of wm in the process). (I can see chicks like dominicans or puerto ricans doing stuff like that... people who are insecure about their "racial status" to the point that they're desperate for white, yet find naive bm who don't understand the culture responding instead...). Women like that are no prize (to say the least!), so who cares? I find it hard to believe you're seeing stuff like that as often as you're perceiving.
haha. Kinda true. BW in particular think that if any other woman could possibly want you, you're going to be a player. ...So they're grilling you about where you were and what you're up to at any given time... and making snide half-jokes about "was that your wife calling"? etc. etc. Not saying that white women are better than black women in all respects, but in that respect, they're better. Definitely more secure. Not possessed by the infantile notion that any black dude worth his salt is out trying to be a "player". (At least not the ww I've dealt with...)
There is so much truth in this statement. Every white woman I've ever met online, who loudly protest they only date black men, have been an absolute train wreck. Some of them very nice women, just not someone you'd want to date. It got so bad if a white woman had that in her profile, it was an automatic disqualifier.