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ColiBreh1 said:
Do those dudes still post?
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Some do. But sometimes it was more of a matter of when racial issues are discussed some people want to downplay it and get real pc and try to think it really doesn't exist and some are just looking for problems or overly sensitive. Sometimes it's really a tough thing to come to reality and open our eyes. And this is often where the divide comes. Some will support the men more because we have a different perspective because of our lives/children/families. Sometimes people get really passionate even outraged (as they should) over racial issues and discussions. Personally, I think it's a great thing to be able to have real conversations about such things especially because often the more subtle bs I encounter gets dismissed by people who can't relate.

As far as those who may not really like white people but like to date/fuck white women. I think the same could be said regarding black people. There are those who are doing the playing/fetish/experimenting, etc. And those of us who are not.
 
andreboba said:
Believe it or not, there are BM on this board who like dating and fucking WW, but really don't like WHITE PEOPLE.
Which doesn't mean you ignore bigotry and racism in this country and around the world, but the WW on this board shouldn't be the ones we beat over the head with it constantly, or tell them they don't know what they're talking about.
It just creates an unfriendly, hostile environment for WW.
You haven't really been here that long but there have been many WW with biracial kids who were just beat down page after page in some threads for daring to have an opinion about racism.

This may be an outdated forum, but I'm a member of other message boards that are still very active.
The BM on this board as a group are responsible for running off most the WW who actually enjoyed posting.

If Bliss called it a day, we'd be lucky to have WW members who posted once a week.
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I'd be interested to see what exactly was posted by BM that led to running away of ww. But it is telling that they would run away from a board that consists of nothing but words, and pictures and videos. If you're running away from disagreements then that's more telling of you for running away.
 
K said:
Your line of question doesn't make any sense. You asked: Do you think white privilege was at play with many of them? i.e. White Fragility etc. I was talking about how ww with black/biracial children were treated (by Black Men and white women who didn't have mixed or other race/ethnicity children) and many left the forums. The white women (moms) who left, and those of us who stayed are probably fully aware of white privilege. White Fragility? uh no. You see, we actually are probably way more aware and deal with a lot more than those who don't have multiracial families in comparison whether we are talking about Black or white families.
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So why did they run away? If they were strong enough to deal with being white with biracial kids in a racist country, then why does disagreements on a forum make one so want to leave?
 
K said:
Some do. But sometimes it was more of a matter of when racial issues are discussed some people want to downplay it and get real pc and try to think it really doesn't exist and some are just looking for problems or overly sensitive. Sometimes it's really a tough thing to come to reality and open our eyes. And this is often where the divide comes. Some will support the men more because we have a different perspective because of our lives/children/families. Sometimes people get really passionate even outraged (as they should) over racial issues and discussions. Personally, I think it's a great thing to be able to have real conversations about such things especially because often the more subtle bs I encounter gets dismissed by people who can't relate.

As far as those who may not really like white people but like to date/fuck white women. I think the same could be said regarding black people. There are those who are doing the playing/fetish/experimenting, etc. And those of us who are not.
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This is what I was talking about with the ww that left. Did they leave because they wanted to dismiss issue....
 
MightyLighty said:
I'd be interested to see what exactly was posted by BM that led to running away of ww. But it is telling that they would run away from a board that consists of nothing but words, and pictures and videos. If you're running away from disagreements then that's more telling of you for running away.
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Uhhhhhhhhhhh........Didn't you just quit this forum last week because nobody believes you are who you claim to be?
 
ColiBreh1 said:
This reminds me of @Bliss. The first time I've ever heard of her or seen her post was in the Kapernick protest thread. Based off that thread, I thought she was gonna be ran off this forum. But, she's still here.
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Why wouldn't l be? I STAND by everything l wrote in that thread
(pun intended):)

MightyLighty said:
That girl Bliss is one self-assured soul ain't she?
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Not about that. I stand up for myself.
I'm also pretty much the only WW on here who defends the WW who have left for being made to feel their opinions didnt matter AS white women.
There were BM and certain WW who tried to dismiss them because they dared to share a (White) perspective about living life through their eyes.
 
The majority reason women left the board had not to do with if they had bi-racial kids. More-like if they had WHITE kids. They were insulted and dismissed by certain members. But having Black kids was fine. You were good.
The purpose of the board often gets lost.
 
MightyLighty said:
So why did they run away? If they were strong enough to deal with being white with biracial kids in a racist country, then why does disagreements on a forum make one so want to leave?
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You're a prime example of why some white women left. Why would anyone want to deal with someone who constantly gives them the third degree about their experiences, especially in regards to Interracial relationships and the day to day ups & downs you have to deal with on various levels? And doubly so from other people who claim they are about being involved in interracial relationships. We're not guinea pigs or research subjects. We're people with lives.
 
andreboba said:
Believe it or not, there are BM on this board who like dating and fucking WW, but really don't like WHITE PEOPLE.
Which doesn't mean you ignore bigotry and racism in this country and around the world, but the WW on this board shouldn't be the ones we beat over the head with it constantly, or tell them they don't know what they're talking about.
It just creates an unfriendly, hostile environment for WW.
You haven't really been here that long but there have been many WW with biracial kids who were just beat down page after page in some threads for daring to have an opinion about racism.

This may be an outdated forum, but I'm a member of other message boards that are still very active.
The BM on this board as a group are responsible for running off most the WW who actually enjoyed posting.

If Bliss called it a day, we'd be lucky to have WW members who posted once a week.
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@Ches
@lippy

Good fucking riddance!

Dude stop bending the reality and truth just to appeal to pancake booty. People as a whole stopped fucking with this forum before it was even about biracial kids as you say. You are just as much as the blame as all the men you stay wagging your finger at.

No you were never a bad poster or started shit but you didn't put out a good product to make people keep coming back.
 
Bliss said:
Why wouldn't l be? I STAND by everything l wrote in that thread
(pun intended):)


Not about that. I stand up for myself.
I'm also pretty much the only WW on here who defends the WW who have left for being made to feel their opinions didnt matter AS white women.
There were BM and certain WW who tried to dismiss them because they dared to share a (White) perspective about living life through their eyes.
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Sorry if this comes off as dismissive, but maybe those particular ww needed to check their privilege. Running away form a forum board you don't get universal agreement doesn't sound like that person is the victim but the whiner who can't take criticism very well.
 
Ra said:
You're a prime example of why some white women left. Why would anyone want to deal with someone who constantly gives them the third degree about their experiences, especially in regards to Interracial relationships and the day to day ups & downs you have to deal with on various levels? And doubly so from other people who claim they are about being involved in interracial relationships. We're not guinea pigs or research subjects. We're people with lives.
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It's just puzzling how one can claim to strengthened by their experience being a parent of bi-racial kids, but not take the slightest bit of criticism on forum.
 
MightyLighty said:
Sorry if this comes off as dismissive, but maybe those particular ww needed to check their privilege. Running away form a forum board you don't get universal agreement doesn't sound like that person is the victim but the whiner who can't take criticism very well.
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It's complicated, complex and no one answer.
 
MightyLighty said:
So why did they run away? If they were strong enough to deal with being white with biracial kids in a racist country, then why does disagreements on a forum make one so want to leave?This is what I was talking about with the ww that left. Did they leave because they wanted to dismiss issue....
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Again, different people leave for different reasons. There were certain WW who left when they felt that black men were more protective or understanding of WW with biracial children and that we were treated more "special". Some of the ww without black or biracial children didn't like that.

I think Bliss is right in that it has been more ww with white children withOUT black/biracial children who ran away or felt the need to run. She happens to defend them. I have at times, depending on the person and the situation. There were some who clearly did not need defending and IMO were straight out obnoxious.

If you are really so interested in it all, I'm sure you can go find the threads where racial issues were discussed and the arguments that went on.
 
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