No, well i haven't really had any lost time as of yet, im pretty much on the dating scene right now, fighting fit too lol But i don't know, maybe if i have a 10yr drout, but even then i can't see myself going for someone younger, i like them to have a few yrs on me.
Lol on Saturdays at one of the clubs over here they call it "grab a granny" night (well the club doesn't, the peeps do) cause it's all 50 year old women who are trying to get 20 year olds. It's funny, they're VERY flirty. Yes, grab the guys asses.
Yep, the same thing happened to the guy i went out with last night, we went to a bar and then onto club, anyway i went to the loo only to find that some 50+ was striding over to him, no lie trying to feel him up, he was shaking his head, it was a horrid sight, he had just managed to untangle himself ( i swear she was all arms and legs) LMAO! when i appeared in his vision, i just said to her (whats up love do you want something?) The desperado had waited till id gone to toilet to accost him, its a sad, sad situation lol, but not the first time its happened to a man ive been with, i must make good choices. Bless him i went to loo again, the man actually took the precaution of going to the bar while i was gone :smt042 I was a fun night though
I think the older they get , they start wanting the younger ones. Most women i have seen easily dating young males are women over 40.
In some cases, I believe that's right. I'm not sure I want an increasing age gap between me and the men I date as I age. Unless the fellas my age are totally decrepit, then bring on the grab a granny night! lol:smt112
This happened to me one time when I went dancing with a man. I came out and 2 women in their mid 50's were all over him. Unfortunately he wasn't as good about handling it as the one you went out with. I was really surprised by the womens' behavior though.
I fail to be surprised about what goes on in the club now, i go for a laugh and dance with mates and the same if im going with a date, obviously im not saying all women are like this, but its happened to me numerous times now. I wouldn't blame your date for his not handling it well, it must be a damn uncomfortable thing to happen in there shoes, especially if your with a date who's momentarily absent.
This place is definitely an older crowd. I was surprised but then I was pretty naive for a long time. Now very little shocks me. In this case he was also in his 50's and rather well versed in such situations, so I do think he should have known how to handle it better. It was a good thing to have happen, it gave me insight into how he was about certain things. But actually....I'm sorry I wouldn't give anyone a pass on playing into it in any way even if it's just an attempt to appease...women deal with this sortof thing and are able to handle it. A man should be able to handle himself and not place his date in an uncomfortable situation.
Yeah it does sound like he should have known better, it can't have been the first time, i think the guy i went out with last night dealt really well in the situation, but previously with someone else that guy used to just stand stock still, like a rabbit caught in the headlights waiting for me to come deal with it, and i'd watched him from afar aswell lol, it used to piss me off sometimes as i can't fight his battles for him, i can't save him everytime i mean (don't stand there and pretend to be a statue looking the other way !) tell whoever to fuck off, that type dont understand nothing else, they need a heavy duty point
Too funny! I'm not one who's going to go after other women. I'm not going to let them walk all over me...I may say something very directly and calmly. But I feel that a man should take care of these things and the woman he's with shouldn't have to deal with it at all. Your post made me laugh...I've seen guys do the statue thing...so funny! (and yes about the one I mentioned...he knew these women from going there before so he definitely should have taken care of it very quickly!)
Now, age is important for me. Actually I do believe that love has no limits, but I think about having a family together and that makes me avoid being with men who r much older then me. Most of times I don't have anything to share with 23 year-old guys though: besides one, my dates have always been from 3 to 8 yrs older. My ex is 31, same thing my ex ex, and my longest relationship started when I was 17 and he was 23.
