Which Type of White Girl Is For You?

[The Dark King]

When I say grown up women *tend* it's not a blanket statement. I'm suggesting that we lean that way, not that all women are. As for magic dying with age, thanks SO much.

Since you've don't date women your age or older, how would you know that, DK? I think it isn't magic you're talking about, it's tight bodies. If that's the case, maybe you ought to stop talking about how you can't find a woman to have a relationship with, because everything you say indicates what you really want is a hookup, and that you seem to be successful at from what you've said. I don't think you really *want* anything more.

I was referring to love not tight bodies. I have friends my age and if you think all I care about is hooking up then you don't pay attention my friend.

 

[TreePixie]

I was referring to love not tight bodies. I have friends my age and if you think all I care about is hooking up then you don't pay attention my friend.

Do you read your own posts?

 

[The Dark King]

Do you read your own posts?

Yeah and where do I say I want hard bodied women? Do you ever wonder how topics like this one start?

 

[TreePixie]

Yeah and where do I say I want hard bodied women? Do you ever wonder how topics like this one start?

I believe you've said you don't date women over 23. You've also expressed sentiments which have led me to believe you'd like a woman to have children for you, but that you don't think love or a relationship can last.

 

[The Dark King]

I believe you've said you don't date women over 23. You've also expressed sentiments which have led me to believe you'd like a woman to have children for you, but that you don't think love or a relationship can last.

That's because younger women aren't usually marriage minded yet and aren't as uptight. I do want a fit woman but that doesn't mean a model either.

 

[Lakers24]

I really think that there is a big regional difference in things like this. No one ever said anything like that where I could hear them growing up in greater Boston.

In a weird way I'm not sure I can adequately explain, I think part of it came from a lack of numbers - there were not a lot of black people in the suburb I lived in, so race just wasn't ever an issue - there was no friction, no discussion, etc. THE big football hero when I was in high school was the only black boy in school with me (and man, was he good). He was treated like every other hero on the team. Race just wasn't really discussed, because it sort of didn't exist. I'm not suggesting that is necessarily a good thing, but I think it brings in a point that's been made about other parts of the world - in the UK the percentage of the population which is black is smaller, and so people tend to be dealt with individually, rather than as a group like here in the US as a whole.

Does that make any sense?

Yes, it makes more sense to look at a person as an individual instead of looking at them, solely, based on Their Race.

 

[Lakers24]

If that were the case then people would see this forum and think the only ww that go for bm are sexy young women in their prime from Europe, Australia, and Canada and older/overweight women from the U.S.
Wait....

From what I've seen, I would say that's True.

 

[Lakers24]

In NZ,except for a small minority,racism is almost zero. No one would even look twice at an interracial couple.In fact even the term interracial is seen as offensive as are terms "mixed race" and even "black".A snapshot of NZ in 50 years by demographers is of a suntanned look as we are so inter-married.
That's why I was surprised when I got to the US and felt people's gazes on me and my date.Until then all this had not registered at all.
More and more black men are settling here and they say it is paradise.

That's Great News. New Zealand could be another, possible, Vacation Destination for me.

 

[Hypestyle]

can a European woman be 'hip-hop'? Hmm...

 

[Lakers24]

hot white women and zero racism. does sound a bit like paradise

I second that notion.

 

[Lakers24]

Fair enough top 5 very talented guys no wack dudes but by your picks and the order I can tell why you don't like EM who in my opinion is better than three of those dudes by far.

I've, just, never been a Fan.

 

[Lakers24]

Seriously? With all the American women on this forum you believe most of us date BM to get back at our parents? Um. I'm 53. I haven't cared what my mother though of my dates since I was 15.

As for trying something different? You guys aren't aliens, yanno. Your body parts are all in the same places. You just have a darker tan.

If I wanted to try something different, I'd try sushi or hang gliding.

I didn't say all White Women in America date Black Men to get back at Their Parents or to try something different but some do. It's good that you made an Independent Decision when deciding to Date Black Men.

 

[Lakers24]

I think I'm a mix of 3 :
I was born in Germany, so I have the European look and part down...

I'm full-blooded German, but I don't have an accent because I was raised in Miami and moved to Alabama when I was 15... which is where the southern accent kinda comes from LOL

I can relate to kind of being a hip hop white girl because i love hip hop and rap.. anything from east coast hip hop to west coast and southern rap, I like it all. I blend in pretty well, and most guys tell me I have an independent, confident attitude without giving off the trashy, white-girl-who-tries-too-hard-to-be-black vibe.

I've always liked black guys.. since I was in first grade every guy I've had a crush on or had a relationship with was black...

IDK what it is, but I love it!

You're One of a Very Unique Group.

 

[Lakers24]

Bit of a blanket condemnation, don't you think? You only know the motives of the WW you've dated, not all of us.

I didn't say All American Girls' motives are different but from Personal Experience and people I've talked to who've dated, both, European and American White Girls have said that European Girls are easier to talk to, their parents are more accepting, they treat them better and enjoy their company more.

 

[Lakers24]

First, can you tell me what you mean by dating, hooking up or being in a serious relationship? I'd also be interested to know if you formed your opinion based on dating women in both the U.S and Europe, and how the motives differed for those women that you dated in the U.S and in Europe?

Dating as in a Monogamous Relationship. I've dated both and I think European White Girls dated more for "Me" and American (Some) White Girls date Black Men on the basis of proving something to someone or themselves.

 

[Lakers24]

Women closer to my age are the worst ones since they are generally husband shopping more so than looking for a husband. I've often said magic dies with age. Im not saying every single instance and in every relationship that my assertions are true but in enough to see that many people will over look a possible mate based on ridiculous bs. The US as a whole is very immature its seen in our entertainment our politics and in the way we do business. So its not a far reach to say that women of a more socially conscious more educated more healthy culture would be more open and a better match for men who date outside their supposed race.
A great example of that for me was when I posted that thread about, Dating In The Dark". The women from the UK seemed genuinely excited about dating bm in comparison to the US version where it was not even an option despite having far more in common with the bm.
It always cracks me up when people claim that people generally prefer people of their own "race" which seems to happen far more here in the great melting pot more so than in countries with far less black people.
Too many are in staunch denial of the impact that racism has had on this country's cultural norm and that spills over into dating choices. You personally may not be that way but you use the same blanketed statements when you assert women of a certain age aren't a certain way or aren't hung up on race when that's clearly our legacy here.

Well said. You made a lot of Valid Points.

 

[satyr]

I'm surprised that no one has brought up Casey Anthony, because I know some of you like crazy bitches.

 

[LA]

I'm surprised that no one has brought up Casey Anthony, because I know some of you like crazy bitches.

We already have a thread about Casey Anthony vs. Amanda Knox.


A lot of guys expressed their interest in Casey already.

 

[FG]

Women closer to my age are the worst ones since they are generally husband shopping more so than looking for a husband. I've often said magic dies with age. Im not saying every single instance and in every relationship that my assertions are true but in enough to see that many people will over look a possible mate based on ridiculous bs. The US as a whole is very immature its seen in our entertainment our politics and in the way we do business. So its not a far reach to say that women of a more socially conscious more educated more healthy culture would be more open and a better match for men who date outside their supposed race.
A great example of that for me was when I posted that thread about, Dating In The Dark". The women from the UK seemed genuinely excited about dating bm in comparison to the US version where it was not even an option despite having far more in common with the bm.
It always cracks me up when people claim that people generally prefer people of their own "race" which seems to happen far more here in the great melting pot more so than in countries with far less black people.
Too many are in staunch denial of the impact that racism has had on this country's cultural norm and that spills over into dating choices. You personally may not be that way but you use the same blanketed statements when you assert women of a certain age aren't a certain way or aren't hung up on race when that's clearly our legacy here.

Is this in reference to your magic dying as you age?

 

[The Dark King]

Is this in reference to your magic dying as you age?

Kind of. I'm referring more so to our ability to love grandly and openly. That part of us that can still feel butterflies when we kiss someone we really like despite trepidations of past events. As we get older we become more reserved, more closed off. I see it in my friends, coworkers, even on this forum. It seems like so much bad has happened that its hard to believe in the good anymore. We all say what we want and what we hope but very few have the courage to go after it. With age comes wisdom., compassion, and appreciation but it seems we sacrafice a lot of that take on the world and find true love gumption we had as youths.