I had always assumed that white women who grew up in major diverse cities were more open to interracial dating. But lately it seems like women who grew up in small towns that were virtually all-white, are increasingly becoming open and intrigued by the notion of dating black men. Just one case in point. I recently was at a friend's house party and met this absolute stunner. She grew up in a small town in Indiana, went to a big 10 college, and just moved to the city for a job in advertising. She's my ideal physical type: about 5'7'', natural blonde, blue eyes, big natural boobs, tanned skin, wide hips and big toned thighs but a flat stomach. I was absolutely floored when I saw her. I of course assumed that I had no shot because she looked like the type who only dated fratty white guys. I just talked to her, made jokes, and was totally relaxed around her. Much to my shock, as people were leaving, she asked for my number and said that we should hang out. WTF! I was pretty excited but played it cool. I later told my friend about this, who knows this girl rather well. And she said that this girl actually told her in private several times that she's never dated a black man but am really curious about doing so. Question for the brothers. Is stuff like this becoming more common? Are the typical "all-american" blonde women now getting more comfortable with dating us?
Reading this reminds me of a blonde soccer chick I deal with in college. She had those nice soccer legs you see on white girls who play the sport. Personally it still comes back to the individual guy. If you know how to deal with women and she is feeling you she will let you know and go from there. Don't over analyze it just do your thing bro.
People are people... Prejudging is way over rated and you'll be surprised. Good luck and let us know how it goes...
:smt042 Seeing you back on the board has made it feel like old times. I'm ready for a west coast marathon in the 'What song are you listening to?' thread.
As a small town girl who lives in IN. I've been attracted to BM since I was a pretty young teen (27 now), and for being mostly a loner homebody in a small town (less than 10,000), I still know and see quite a few interracial couples around here. So, yeah, I'd say it's pretty safe not to assume that any more.
They two summed it up. If anything there is a difference between east and west coast small towns, either way if your fresh you get what you want without trying as you have witnessed by her asking you for your number.
I to have had more IR with women from small towns. This was the case even when I lived in Los Angeles before attending college.
:smt045 Exactly, if you're a cool dude with good vibes, the ladies can feel that and take a fancy to it. Then its up to you to treat them right.
I kinda learned the opposite. Small town girls seemed less cliquish. Ask one of them brothaz that grew up in a small town how hard they had it. They may be makin out like bandits!
It still comes down to the girl and the guy. The difference nowadays compared to 25_years ago IMO is that there isn't that at times crushing social pressure and stigma placed on WW who pursue IR relationships. More people are like 'whatever.' There are still that gang of bigots who can't deal, but I feel that WW of all ages are freer socially than generations past. Being involved in an BM/WW relationship in the 1960s and '70s was damn near a political statement and and act of conscience. WW risked being almost totally ostracized from their social circle and immediate family. For the most part, it's nowhere near that dicey being in an IR relationship today.
