PeyBackTime8818
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To me there are 5 types of white girls i cant resist:
ALL AMERICAN WHITE GIRLS: I grew up around these types of girls. These are your typical "shop at the mall all day", gossip about nothing, cheerleading types that usually go after the Brad Pitt looking guy on the football team who drives a corvette. i always believed these types to be unavailable to me, and they still are. I've never been with a girl like this and still remain a sort of "forbidden" fantasy. The only white girls I've ever been with belong to the remaining 4 categories below.
HIP HOP WHITE GIRLS: These might be my favorite. There is nothing like a white girl who knows hip hop slang, hip hop music, and who accepts and understands little things about being a black person that most "all American white girls" dont. The way they talk and how natural they blend in with other black people is so awesome to me. Alot of New York white girls are really "hip hop" and I LOVE it!!!! The two brunette chicks im talking to now are hip hop girls. One, who is still in high school, is VERY hip hop. The other, who goes to my college and is a model, isn't THAT hip hop but she hangs around mostly black guys and is pretty tough. They have a swagger and confidence and independence about them. Sometimes I feel like it is sort of like dating a black girl who just looks white. I also like the way they dress and when I introduce them to my black friends, they dont feel uncomfortable and my friends dont go "what you doin' wit this corny ass white girl"? Instead she's cool with everything in our culture and can relate to what we like and she doesn't seem out of place. Once they get to know her, they see how she has everything in common with us, she just has lighter skin.
HARD ROCKER CHICKS: These are girls who like heavy metal and tend to have lots of tattoos and piercings. Now I dont mean the goth girls that dress in all black, wear black lip stick and worship the devil...they gotta be cute! And trust me there are cute ones out there. one is a close friend of mine Stacey. I love TONGUE RINGS and nose rings, I think they are so sexy! (and long nails are also a must for me when it comes to ANY girl, although long nails seem to be mostly had by hip hop girls and some all-american girls). These girls though seem to be the most depressed and have the most issues. I've dated a few and they all have major self esteem issues and drink a lot. Since a big part of me likes rock music I used to be interested in these types of girls, if for anything just to have someone to talk to about rock music with. I was really depressed during two periods in my life...when I first graduated high school and didnt know where my life was heading...and after my southern ex-g/f dumped me :cry: . Both of these times i became obsessed with hard rocker girls. The bad part is they feed off of drama and have tempers. These relationships NEVER lasted very long.
SOUTHERN GIRLS: I love accents. My girlfriend who i was with for 3 years was from the south had the most amazing southern accent. Until i got used to it, it was the sexiest thing in the world to me. Southern accents have always drove me crazy and when I met Kristen I knew she could be the one and her accent definitely helped! LOL I doubt I will ever meet another southern girl so she might be my last chance to ever end up with one. Odds are I wont. Too bad, I love them!
The one draw back is some of the racist comments they tend to make. My ex-g/f did this and it hurt sometimes, and other times I had to laugh. It's not their fault they were raised so ignorant, but it is still awkward at times. Once she asked me do black people get chicken pox? I was shocked!!!! I had to explain to her that everything that happened to white people happens to us too. Can you believe that? She genuinely did not know that! That goes back to the ancient ways of thinking that blacks are not fully human, but animals of some kind.
She also used to say niggers alot to describe poor black people and she tried to convince me that it wasn't meant in a racist way because if she really felt that ALL blacks were "niggers", then she wouldn't be in love with one (me). She was right but I still had to tell her to stop saying that word because not all people would be as understanding of "what she meant by it" as I was.
EUROPEAN GIRLS: I also love european accents. Swedish, Polish, German, Russian, whichever. ALOT of European girls go to my college and I've gone out with, met, flirted with, or approached most of them. European girls just have a care free-ness about them. Not that they are easier or slutty or anything, but they are less stuck up and superficial and gold digging than American girls. American girls can sometimes be spoiled and only care about what you can get for them. What car you drive. All that nonsense. Most of them cannot even cook or care to even bother to learn.
European women WANT TO and KNOW HOW to please their men. The whole European way of life is more laid back and IR dating over there, especially in England, is very popular. IR couples are so common over there. It is soooo beautiful. It's crazy because you would think that since America is so diverse that there would LESS racism here than over in Europe where you might assume there aren't as many black people so those girls might not be as used to black guys.
The way I've experienced it is european girls come to America and are so happy to be treated nice by an American that they do not see me as black or white, but as AN AMERICAN. Around the world, America is THE PLACE TO BE. We are # 1. Everyone wants to come here. So they look up to us. But here in America, many white girls might look down on you as "just a black guy". Plus people tend to forget that discrimination goes beyond just black and white. Look at the Holocaust. Look at that movie Gangs of New York where irish immigrants were being killed left and right. It would be hypocritical of european girls to come to this country and be racist when they themselves want to be accepted and not discriminated against.
I've dated Swedish, Polish, German and Russian. For a while I almost completely gave up on dating American girls. I got sick of the "all american white girls" for obvious reasons. Southern girls brought too much racial issues with them, not to mention meeting the family would be HELL (and the ONE southern girl i dated broke my heart due to racism and wanting to please her family, so she threw away 3 years of our love :cry: ). And hip hop girls like i said can basically be black girls with white skin. So as soon as they find out I like rock music and other "white things", they stop calling and go out with "blacker and harder" black guys. For a while I felt European girls were the ticket.
The Swedish and Polish women are very nice but not too smart. German and Russian women are very assertive, head strong, smart, driven, and know what they want. The Russian girl I dated this past summer was older than me, a law major, and had an attitude problem. After that I went back to American girls.
So for me I guess it is between European girls and hip hop girls. Which of these types of white girl are your favorite?
ALL AMERICAN WHITE GIRLS: I grew up around these types of girls. These are your typical "shop at the mall all day", gossip about nothing, cheerleading types that usually go after the Brad Pitt looking guy on the football team who drives a corvette. i always believed these types to be unavailable to me, and they still are. I've never been with a girl like this and still remain a sort of "forbidden" fantasy. The only white girls I've ever been with belong to the remaining 4 categories below.
HIP HOP WHITE GIRLS: These might be my favorite. There is nothing like a white girl who knows hip hop slang, hip hop music, and who accepts and understands little things about being a black person that most "all American white girls" dont. The way they talk and how natural they blend in with other black people is so awesome to me. Alot of New York white girls are really "hip hop" and I LOVE it!!!! The two brunette chicks im talking to now are hip hop girls. One, who is still in high school, is VERY hip hop. The other, who goes to my college and is a model, isn't THAT hip hop but she hangs around mostly black guys and is pretty tough. They have a swagger and confidence and independence about them. Sometimes I feel like it is sort of like dating a black girl who just looks white. I also like the way they dress and when I introduce them to my black friends, they dont feel uncomfortable and my friends dont go "what you doin' wit this corny ass white girl"? Instead she's cool with everything in our culture and can relate to what we like and she doesn't seem out of place. Once they get to know her, they see how she has everything in common with us, she just has lighter skin.
HARD ROCKER CHICKS: These are girls who like heavy metal and tend to have lots of tattoos and piercings. Now I dont mean the goth girls that dress in all black, wear black lip stick and worship the devil...they gotta be cute! And trust me there are cute ones out there. one is a close friend of mine Stacey. I love TONGUE RINGS and nose rings, I think they are so sexy! (and long nails are also a must for me when it comes to ANY girl, although long nails seem to be mostly had by hip hop girls and some all-american girls). These girls though seem to be the most depressed and have the most issues. I've dated a few and they all have major self esteem issues and drink a lot. Since a big part of me likes rock music I used to be interested in these types of girls, if for anything just to have someone to talk to about rock music with. I was really depressed during two periods in my life...when I first graduated high school and didnt know where my life was heading...and after my southern ex-g/f dumped me :cry: . Both of these times i became obsessed with hard rocker girls. The bad part is they feed off of drama and have tempers. These relationships NEVER lasted very long.
SOUTHERN GIRLS: I love accents. My girlfriend who i was with for 3 years was from the south had the most amazing southern accent. Until i got used to it, it was the sexiest thing in the world to me. Southern accents have always drove me crazy and when I met Kristen I knew she could be the one and her accent definitely helped! LOL I doubt I will ever meet another southern girl so she might be my last chance to ever end up with one. Odds are I wont. Too bad, I love them!
The one draw back is some of the racist comments they tend to make. My ex-g/f did this and it hurt sometimes, and other times I had to laugh. It's not their fault they were raised so ignorant, but it is still awkward at times. Once she asked me do black people get chicken pox? I was shocked!!!! I had to explain to her that everything that happened to white people happens to us too. Can you believe that? She genuinely did not know that! That goes back to the ancient ways of thinking that blacks are not fully human, but animals of some kind.
She also used to say niggers alot to describe poor black people and she tried to convince me that it wasn't meant in a racist way because if she really felt that ALL blacks were "niggers", then she wouldn't be in love with one (me). She was right but I still had to tell her to stop saying that word because not all people would be as understanding of "what she meant by it" as I was.
EUROPEAN GIRLS: I also love european accents. Swedish, Polish, German, Russian, whichever. ALOT of European girls go to my college and I've gone out with, met, flirted with, or approached most of them. European girls just have a care free-ness about them. Not that they are easier or slutty or anything, but they are less stuck up and superficial and gold digging than American girls. American girls can sometimes be spoiled and only care about what you can get for them. What car you drive. All that nonsense. Most of them cannot even cook or care to even bother to learn.
European women WANT TO and KNOW HOW to please their men. The whole European way of life is more laid back and IR dating over there, especially in England, is very popular. IR couples are so common over there. It is soooo beautiful. It's crazy because you would think that since America is so diverse that there would LESS racism here than over in Europe where you might assume there aren't as many black people so those girls might not be as used to black guys.
The way I've experienced it is european girls come to America and are so happy to be treated nice by an American that they do not see me as black or white, but as AN AMERICAN. Around the world, America is THE PLACE TO BE. We are # 1. Everyone wants to come here. So they look up to us. But here in America, many white girls might look down on you as "just a black guy". Plus people tend to forget that discrimination goes beyond just black and white. Look at the Holocaust. Look at that movie Gangs of New York where irish immigrants were being killed left and right. It would be hypocritical of european girls to come to this country and be racist when they themselves want to be accepted and not discriminated against.
I've dated Swedish, Polish, German and Russian. For a while I almost completely gave up on dating American girls. I got sick of the "all american white girls" for obvious reasons. Southern girls brought too much racial issues with them, not to mention meeting the family would be HELL (and the ONE southern girl i dated broke my heart due to racism and wanting to please her family, so she threw away 3 years of our love :cry: ). And hip hop girls like i said can basically be black girls with white skin. So as soon as they find out I like rock music and other "white things", they stop calling and go out with "blacker and harder" black guys. For a while I felt European girls were the ticket.
The Swedish and Polish women are very nice but not too smart. German and Russian women are very assertive, head strong, smart, driven, and know what they want. The Russian girl I dated this past summer was older than me, a law major, and had an attitude problem. After that I went back to American girls.
So for me I guess it is between European girls and hip hop girls. Which of these types of white girl are your favorite?
