I'd have a shit ton of kids probably if I have to be honest with myself or hopefully a good friend or family member would talk some sense into my dumb ass
It's all about character and self control while always keeping an eye on the future. In college I was a high profile athlete with pro prospects, so I had a taste of the exact same scenario you describe above. Luckily I had family (especially my father) who taught me from a young age all about character, morality, sexual responsibility, ect, so I never got caught up in the groupie/goldigger game. This is just one example of why it is SO VERY IMPORTANT IMO that young men have strong male role models. It is truly a shame to see George in this self inflicted situation, however it is important to keep in mind that there are numerous pro athletes who are successfully able to navigate the numerous minefields of fame and money and those that target them because of what they have and who they are.
But in this instance, he went after her. He came to her job, he sought her out. Strippers strip, he allowed it to go to the hooker level. (As did she). Which should be a lesson to women who let their men go to strip clubs thinking it's safe because there is no sex involved. Stripping these days it seems is just a legal way to circumvent prostitution laws.
I say that because some women are under the false illusion that given the choice between their man hanging at the club or hanging at the strip club, he's less likely to encounter a women who is actually looking for a man at the strip-club. Strippers of today also act like they are only there to make an honest living to feed their kids, pay for school, when half of these undercover slores are there to really fuck men for cash. Be aware, is all.
always takes two to tango. if you can trust your man it s not going to matter if he s hanging in the clubs or elsewhere. if he has the intention to cheat, it doesnt matter where he s going .. he might just start some with your girl next door.
As much as an dog I'm am, when I was a avid strip club goer years ago I never once thought about cheating with one of them women. They are too expensive to get your dick wet. Most guys who hit up strip clubs can't really afford these women and being that these women are all about their green, they are pretty good at picking out generous losers from broke losers. It's far more easier to cheat in an regular club than a strip club, believe me.
I do realize men can cheat anywhere anytime with anyone, but in this case scenerio, where he met her at the strip club, my point is his g/f might have been under the illusion that he was going to see some strippers perform and that's it, when clearly it went further. That there are strippers who are undercover hookers plying their goods. And I feel no woman should ever full trust her boyfriend to the point that she naively thinks another woman trying to vy for his attention will always fail. There's a saying, "trust in Allah, but tie your camel"... you can have faith, but you need to also be aware of your surroundings, cause you know, women have a tendency to be the last to know.
Agreed, that's what I meant by "self inflicted" in my op. That being said, I am sure she knew who he was and was only to happy to comply and get pregnant. I for one never understood the allure of the strip club experience. Sure, I appreciate the female form every bit as much as any guy, but paying to be teased sexually by an attractive woman who sees you only as an ATM was never my idea of a good time. My advice to my athlete clients is to stay out of strip clubs at all costs. Nothing good happens there and I can show them a long list athletes who got caught up with either criminal activity, paternity suits, or simply a situation of catching feelings for a stripper (who is essentially a well trained mercenary) and being strung along and wasting A LOT of money, that originated in strip clubs. I feel the same way for my non-athlete clients as well.
Smart man. Wasting money in strip clubs was definitely an low point of my life... but then again I was much more introverted back then and didn't care for socializing with others. I started hitting up bars/clubs and felt like the biggest idiot in the world. Women were pretty much raunchy like the strippers except that kept their clothes on most of the time and they were doing it for free. If they stepped to you, the interest was usually genuine.
Great advice. Besides, what is that saying, 'Who (straight) male wants to be in a room full of men with erections". :???:
