I am a nice young lady living in ohio. I am 22 and have a job, I have blonde hair and blue eyes and consider myself to be ok looking...but I have such a hard time meeting black guys... all my friends date black guys and when I try to talk to one, he never seems to have any interest in me and kind of walks away..what am I doing wrong? too forward? I think black guys are so hot, would love to settle down with one..any suggestions?
If you are looking for someone, the forum is not the place. You need to go to go to the personals. Good luck in your search. And I don't mean to sound too forward or even stern, but the reason is that he detects that you see him as a fetish. A black man is not a fetish. He has the same things as any man. Most of all, he is flesh and blood. Heart and soul. You need to start slow and become friends first. Don't talk about your attraction yet because you could bring unwanted attention to yourself from the unenlightened. Sooner or later, he might come around and you might have a great relationship with him. Remember that you, me and everyone in the world are of the human race.
This. @ OP : Do you actually find black men attractive or are you just wanting to date one because all of your friends are at the moment?
Somehow I sense you're looking at black men as some kind of "fad" i.e. all of my friends date black guys. Like all of my friends switched to the Galaxy phone. Perhaps you should approach them as you would approach ANY man. Just suggesting................
But still, even if she was approaching BM as a "fad", there are guys that will still try to be with her if she's decent looking.
Indeed. Ask how many black dudes would have sex with Sarah Palin or some other random straight up racist white woman that's somewhat attractive & watch how fast the hands & dicks go up.......
And there you have it. If a looney ass middle aged white woman with some seriously skewed views & opinions and overly effeminate husband can have black men lusting after her, then a 20 something white woman should have no problems getting one or more black dudes to talk to her. Shit some dudes would prefer she didn't talk at all and just strip butt ass naked in spread eagle position.........
