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I have seen Sarah's video about a year or so ago. She's cool and sexy. Tyrone Magnus is cool, too. I hadn't seen much of any of their recent clips on YouTube. I have to say that Tyrone Magnus' observation was a little scattershot because he didn't list geography. I feel geography sometimes has a part in it. Earrings, I disagree. Growing up, I have seen many white women wear hoop earrings and in no way did that suggest an interest in black men. I have met a lot of "Beckys", though none of them drove a Mercedes-Benz. A Corvette, Camaro, Honda, BMW, pick up truck, mini van or suv. I have seen one "wigger" on a bus one day and she mastered Ebonics, much to her father's embarrassment(he was sitting next to her). I have met a few white women who were very outspoken about their preference for black men and didn't care what anyone thought. I guessed that these women were away from home. I had seen one white woman gradually adopt to the black lifestyle by wearing X's in honor of Malcolm X and the film that inspired it. I had seen a couple of white women pining over Latino guys, because Madonna did it with Jose Canseco. One woman dressed like Madonna, but she never dated a black guy. But she dated Latinos. Another, who was a vegetarian from Germany hung out with Latinos. She did not date black men. In conclusion; everyone's experience in this area is varied.
The chick is a hot mess and the dude sounds like he didn't make it past the third grade. An assumption that people gloss over in the dating advice industry is why even pursue a relationship in the first place? Deal with that before you focus on irrelevant shit like if she's white or whatever.
Lol.....i love that statement. People need to stop with trying to justify why u are dating outside their race. Just say he or she (that person ) makes me happy or i was attracked to that person because........
Bingo! Trying to explain 'why' someone dates a person of a certain color just opens the door to more stupid stereotypes. If you're going to accept the positive stereotypes based on ethnicity, you may as well accept the negatives because they all come from the same place. Each ethnicity has people of varying social status, education levels, shapes, sizes, etc.,. Usually the traits mentioned to explain why so and so only dates people of whatever ethnicity are traits that can be found in other ethnic groups. I date white women because they have good credit.
I agree with Lippy. The train has left the track, not gotten back on. I agree with maybe one thing Sarah said and almost nothing he said was true for me, although I agreed with what he said about black men having a different standard than white men when it comes to thick women.
I just think bm are more vocal about their preferences, skinny or thick It all comes down to individual preferences and not caring about what others think
I think black men who like thick women are more vocal about and appreciative of them. And, as Tyrone said, their standard of what is thick/fat is different. Very different. But there's always guys like Iggy who love twigs. That's cool, too. I used to be a twig.
I agree. Some people may have a "type" or a more narrowly defined preference, while some may not. Same goes for personal preferences of food, music, clothing style, whatever. Whatever floats your boat...
