Im hearing from some of the women who have came on to this site that this their first in an interracial relationship. Some have left some have gone....So to all the women on the site and the fellas could answer too: Is this your first time doing IR? Did you have curiousity sexually on your first date with your mate? Was your first time with the opposite race refreshing as in the sense "finally somethin different"? Have bm always showed interest in you? Have ww always showed interest in you? And what triggered you to date outside your race knowing what kind of world this is towards difference?
Good questions Kenneth, here are my answers. This is my first time of getting further than just a kiss with a bm, although I have previously, albeit briefly, dated other non white men before. I had a lot of sexual curiosity because the sexual tension between me and my partner was literally sizzling! I wondered what on earth was going on that could make me act this way! I wouldn't say it was refreshing due it being something different, but it was by far the best sex I'd ever had and I was left unable to walk! I live in a very white area so there haven't been many men to show interest in me. But now there are more bm around, and I have traveled to some more diverse area, the majority of interest shown in me is from bm. The man I met totally impressed me and the chemistry between was was so intense that it all just happened naturally. I decided to take it further and actually have a relationship with him because there seemed no good reason not to and I don't give a shit about what other people think.
Is this your first time doing IR? Nope Did you have curiousity sexually on your first date with your mate? Yes, because I was extremely attracted to him, but not because he was different ethnicity. Was your first time with the opposite race refreshing as in the sense "finally somethin different"? Nope. I dont even know what you are speaking about. Have bm always shown interest in you? Yes, but less now that I am skinny. Now it is mostly WM. And what triggered you to date outside your race knowing what kind of world this is towards difference? I didnt know the world looked any different at the time I started as a young girl. My first kiss was a little black boy in kindergarten.
No. Don't we all? But, it isn't good to act on it that fast. Huh? No for the bm, and yes for the ww. My preference.
What I meant by Q3 is if you are a welcomer of open mindness, but has usually dated people of your own race when you finally did go interracial were you glad you turned the thought of open minded dating into reality?
If this was somethin you always wanted to do but never got the chance to, was it a relief you finally did what you wanted to do?
Well, I never felt obligated to black women, so I just went with my preference, and because I and others couldn't find a good reason not to, I just did what felt right to me.
Is this your first time doing IR? no Did you have curiousity sexually on your first date with your mate? yes , I was really into him we ended up hooking up later. Was your first time with the opposite race refreshing as in the sense "finally somethin different"? changed my outlook on the world. Have bm always showed interest in you? yes. I have a big butt And what triggered you to date outside your race knowing what kind of world this is towards difference? I nice cute guy kept asking me out so I said yes/
Is this your first time doing IR? no Did you have curiousity sexually on your first date with your mate? No. I was totally attracted to the guy, but I did not do anything but kiss him. Was your first time with the opposite race refreshing as in the sense "finally somethin different"? Yes, He was awesome. Have bm always showed interest in you? ????? I get all kinds. And what triggered you to date outside your race knowing what kind of world this is towards difference? I was raised just about as closed-minded as you can get.....my parents would make comments such as, "This guy I work with he's a black guy...but not a "black" one...." idiots....Anyway, until I was in my later teens I never really saw things other than the way they had presented them to me. Then, I met this guy (a friend of my sis'...a bf...white guy) who sorta taught me to look beyond skin tone. Since then, I have completely broadened my horizons and only wish I had done it years earlier.
Is this your first time doing IR? no Did you have curiosity sexually on your first date with your mate? some... but not much Was your first time with the opposite race refreshing as in the sense "finally somethin different"? no, sir Have bm always showed interest in you? Have ww always showed interest in you? nope; very few ppl ever show much interest in me. And what triggered you to date outside your race knowing what kind of world this is towards difference? race doesn't matter to me, the person does; so if i like him, why not? doesn't matter what the color and feck everyone else and their close-mindedness.
yep - first time dating outside my race definitely curious - i have to say i was fooling round with him, and could feel him getting hard - and it scared the shit out of me! as for my first time with someone from a different race - i haven't had sex with a white guy......this guy is my first. have BM shown interest before? uh, yeah i got comments but i dunno if that's more my figure than anything else (Big boobs, small waist, big hips, black girls arse) so most guys commented anyway!!! and why date out of my race - to tell u the truth i didn't even think about it. it wasn't til we'd been dating a few months i mentioned him to my parents and they went ballistic that i thought i may have some problems ahead. until then i never for-sore any issues about interracial dating - naive? hopeful?
1. no, all my dating life has been IR 2. no, i only date women so why would i be sexually curious? I already know that I am sexually attracted only to women 3. no, besides her color and that each individual person is different than another, nothing is diffferent 4. no its individual 5. no triggers, i have always liked only girls/females. racism is not natural it is a learned behavior, it is evil. love is natural so loving someone was just natural--her skin color being different is nothing, there are millions of blacks in the US with different colors of skin. Race is a unnatural man-made construct
An Interview With Mosiah: Mosiah, all of our readers out there want to know, is this your first time doing IR? MOSIAH - It depends on your definition of IR. I've been with a Latina before and I've dated a sista who was part Korean and part black. She preferred to be called mulatto, so I don't know if that counts as IR or not. As far as white women are concerned, I've never had one as a girlfriend, but a few months ago, I had one as a lover. I feel ya, my brother. Ok, I know this is a personal question, Mosiah, but did you have curiosity sexually on your first date with your mate? MOSIAH - Yes, I was curious about the legendary sexual prowess of the white woman. Every bm I know who's been intimate with one says that ww, even the most conservative ones, are great, uninhibited lovers. I'm not one to normally subscribe to stereotypes, but based on the ONE ww I've been with, let me just say....I know now why they say that ww are a bm's kryptonite, hahaha. You are a very funny man. Now, while you wuz waxing snowflake's azz, was it refreshing as in the sense that it was finally something different? The women on this site would like to know. MOSIAH - Snowflake, huh? That's a good one. If I was thinking, finally something different, that would imply that I was bored with having sex with bw, so I wouldn't say that. But I knew that I could no longer truthfully say that I haven't been with a ww. I'll just say that having sex with that ww was the most intense sexual experience I've had partly because I had always wondered what it would be like. Everyone knows that you are a very handsome and intelligent man, Mosiah. I know this is a stupid question, but I've been told to ask it anyway. Have ww always showed interest in you? MOSIAH - I used to say that I would never get involved sexually with a ww because I was afraid to be called a sellout and I wanted to be that strong brother who saves his loving for the sistagirls. I always thought they were cute, but I thought it was important for bm to show unconditional love for bw because of the tough times we shared. Ironically, back in those days, I had more ww coming on to me than I do now. But now, it seems like most of the ww who show interest in me are already in relationships. Am I considering becoming a black bull? You can never say never, but I would much rather meet a single woman. I only have four qualifications ladies: You must be legal, mature, I must be attractive to you and you must be attractive to me. I hope to meet my queengirl one day, whether she is an ivory princess or a black queen. Deep, my brother. Just one last question: what triggered you to date outside your race knowing what kind of world this is towards differences? MOSIAH - When I see a woman I want, the main thing I'm thinking about is how can I overcome my shyness and approach her? I don't give a dyke's damn what anyone else thinks of my choice of woman anymore. I have to go to work now. Nice talking to you. Peace.
Is this your first time doing IR? No, however I have not had a serious interracial relationship as of yet. This isn't because it is IR it's just how it's been (granted, I have only had 1 serious relationship anyway). Did you have curiousity sexually on your first date with your mate? I am not in a serious relationship now. But, I love sex and I am curious about how it's going to be no matter who I choose to date. Was your first time with the opposite race refreshing as in the sense "finally somethin different"? Not really. My good or bad sexually experiences have not been because of the man's race but because of the man overall. Have bm always showed interest in you? YES! I have always been in diverse groups so the availability is there. Plus, I got some "big titties with a matching ass" for a little girl. All kinds of men like that but the brothas loooooove it. And what triggered you to date outside your race knowing what kind of world this is towards difference? Societies' influence means very little to me. I've always been a little "unaverage." When I like a man I like a man. Now it's become a conscious decision because I have found many more men who fit me (personality, intellectually, professionally, emotionally, spiritually) when I haven't closed myself off to certain races.
You sure talk a good game Lainarain. Why don't you show us what you're working with? You never know who might be checking out this site. "Waiting and wondering...." Peace. ______________________ The dominant primordial beast was strong in Buck, and under the fierce conditions of trail life it grew and grew. Yet it was a secret growth. His newborn cunning gave him poise and control.
You are right, you never know who is lurking on wwbm.com. Maybe even bw - gasp! I have no game MO and not attempting to. I did offer to show myself to you but the yahoo gods kept us apart and I am only submitting to their divine intervention. As for posting my pic for all to see: YIKES! If it was just the regular posters I'd be cool with that. But, like I said...lurkers.
What are you talking about? You haven't shown yourself to us! At least Mo has shown us his lustrous (dread)locks...he's allowed to ask for a pic. You show me yours, I'll show you mine. Wait - that's a lie, still afraid of the potential stalkers. :yawinkle: (tee-hee - love my yawinkles)
