Well, that might be your problem right there. A lot of women like bad boys or at least non-metrosexuals. I'd also revisit those views on virginity and marriage if I were you.
Relax My advice would be to relax first women can sense when a man is looking for someone and if you are looking too hard they will think that something is wrong with you. Don't mention wealth and be down to earth. Women like a challenge as much as we do. Tony