Random Conversation 2.0

I don't know about you (Sam and dude) but the older you get the less bs you put up with in dating. At the same time you learn to listen admit wrong , apologize and move on.

Have you mature peeps see this in yourselves?
samson1701 said:
In my defense, I did say get her something equally as thoughtful for her birthday. Then give her the book later when they've gotten deeper into their relationship.

I never said he should show no emotions, play Joe cool or not form any attachments or feelings regarding the relationship. I simply thought he should slow up a bit. It's only been a month. Being a little cautious, but still openly and honestly moving toward a relationship with someone is not playing games. Real women respect that, too.



Bruh, we old. We better rush. We coming up on the other side of that hill and our knees could go at any time. ...lol



Fam, as I said, do what you feel. If it works out great. But, if it doesn't that's great because you find out sooner or later. One thing that worries me, though. You posted that you'd thought you would never feel this again.

Don't allow yourself to believe that. If this doesn't work, you'll eventually meet another who'll make you feel all teenage girly inside. Love is like that. Especially when you're not expecting it but open to anything.
Click to expand...
 
RaiderLL said:
He's not proposing to the girl, he's just giving a gift from the heart that he thinks she'll love. If she's as good a woman as he thinks (hopes), she'll love it regardless of whether it cost a dollar or a thousand dollars.

I think sometimes men are too guarded with their feelings, trying not to "rush things" but they eventually lose the interest of the one they like because playing aloof backfires. It's childish imo. If I'm dating a guy and he tries to act like joe cool, no emotions, no attachment/feelings about the relationship, I'd be gone. I don't play games, be upfront and own your feelings. That's how you get the respect of a real woman.
Click to expand...

Yep!

And as for the advice of give it to her but then back off a bit....smh.
 
The Dark King said:
I wonder what would be appropriate then?
A kiss on the cheek and a slap on the ass?
Click to expand...

ALWAYS APPROPRIATE.

samson1701 said:
In my defense, I did say get her something equally as thoughtful for her birthday. Then give her the book later when they've gotten deeper into their relationship.

I never said he should show no emotions, play Joe cool or not form any attachments or feelings regarding the relationship. I simply thought he should slow up a bit. It's only been a month. Being a little cautious, but still openly and honestly moving toward a relationship with someone is not playing games. Real women respect that, too.



Bruh, we old. We better rush. We coming up on the other side of that hill and our knees could go at any time. ...lol



Fam, as I said, do what you feel. If it works out great. But, if it doesn't that's great because you find out sooner or later. One thing that worries me, though. You posted that you'd thought you would never feel this again.

Don't allow yourself to believe that. If this doesn't work, you'll eventually meet another who'll make you feel all teenage girly inside. Love is like that. Especially when you're not expecting it but open to anything.
Click to expand...

Mr Samson you sir are one of my favorites here, I most certainly wasn't implying that you were saying to joe-cool-it or anything like that. I totally get where you're coming from.

I feel a personal responsibility to disagree with GL from time to time though because it gives him something to respond to in these threads (without which we'd have a bazillion new threads created by him daily to suffer through). That's really where my argument was directed. You're welcome :)
 
goodlove said:
Lol

A whole hour a day!!!!!????

In 2 months theyll should live together and 3 months later get married

:-). ;-)
Click to expand...

Well... It sounds like that's not much in your opinion which is fine. I could be wrong, but TDK's posts reads as if they're enjoying each other. If that's the case... I'd say they should continue on and see what develops.

The Dark King said:
I wonder what would be appropriate then?
A kiss on the cheek and a slap on the ass?
Click to expand...

I like what you've wrote so far, but if this works for... Have at it:-).

goodlove said:
Exactly....its the new thing...then he will notice the pimple on her elbow and go "eeewww"

Dudeny12 played the age card
Click to expand...

Just calling it as I see it.

samson1701 said:
In my defense, I did say get her something equally as thoughtful for her birthday. Then give her the book later when they've gotten deeper into their relationship.

I never said he should show no emotions, play Joe cool or not form any attachments or feelings regarding the relationship. I simply thought he should slow up a bit. It's only been a month. Being a little cautious, but still openly and honestly moving toward a relationship with someone is not playing games. Real women respect that, too.



Bruh, we old. We better rush. We coming up on the other side of that hill and our knees could go at any time. ...lol



Fam, as I said, do what you feel. If it works out great. But, if it doesn't that's great because you find out sooner or later. One thing that worries me, though. You posted that you'd thought you would never feel this again.

Don't allow yourself to believe that. If this doesn't work, you'll eventually meet another who'll make you feel all teenage girly inside. Love is like that. Especially when you're not expecting it but open to anything.
Click to expand...

Getting old...Absolutely, but I'm past the rushing thing:-). I let it go at a natural pace.
 
No doubt. I hope it works out.
DudeNY12 said:
Well... It sounds like that's not much in your opinion which is fine. I could be wrong, but TDK's posts reads as if they're enjoying each other. If that's the case... I'd say they should continue on and see what develops.



I like what you've wrote so far, but if this works for... Have at it:-).



Just calling it as I see it.



Getting old...Absolutely, but I'm past the rushing thing:-). I let it go at a natural pace.
Click to expand...
 
RaiderLL said:
ALWAYS APPROPRIATE.



Mr Samson you sir are one of my favorites here, I most certainly wasn't implying that you were saying to joe-cool-it or anything like that. I totally get where you're coming from.

I feel a personal responsibility to disagree with GL from time to time though because it gives him something to respond to in these threads (without which we'd have a bazillion new threads created by him daily to suffer through). That's really where my argument was directed. You're welcome :)
Click to expand...

Lol. I'm gonna make a new thread now
 
tumblr_neqwm56MgP1sgl0ajo1_500.gif


All this over a got damn book. TDK just give her the book, your way to old to be playing these stupid mind fucking games others are telling you to play.
 
The Dark King said:
Slow it down to what? I'm not buying her a car it's a vintage book lol
Click to expand...

I think its a great gift cause you listened to the woman and u acted on it. Most dudes would've missed it. So you are on point.

Again u mentioned the sentimental value of it to her. Now women are extremely analytical. She will analyze that shit thoroughly. She may think you are going to fast. You may just see it as just a thoughtful gift (booty points. Let's admit it....lol). If she think you are going too fast then ..... You will get that "dear john" letter/text or "let's be friends" call.
 
RaiderLL said:
ALWAYS APPROPRIATE.



Mr Samson you sir are one of my favorites here, I most certainly wasn't implying that you were saying to joe-cool-it or anything like that. I totally get where you're coming from.

I feel a personal responsibility to disagree with GL from time to time though because it gives him something to respond to in these threads (without which we'd have a bazillion new threads created by him daily to suffer through). That's really where my argument was directed. You're welcome :)
Click to expand...

Even if you did mean it for me, we're always good. Besides, I like that fya. ...lol
 
Whilst researching my family tree on Ancestry.com, I finally decided to check out the show they advertise on there: Finding Your Roots.

It's on PBS on Tuesday nights.

I went to the website and watched the latest episode they had available and was immediately hooked. Over the next few weeks, I watched every episode on PBS's website, even paying a $5 a month membership fee (it's for a good cause) to gain access to the earlier shows.

So, yeah, I've become obsessed with it. LOL.

Anyway, last night, they profiled Sean "Puffy" Combs and LL Cool J's family trees. This episode BLEW ME AWAY. It was by far one of their best ones. It was truly shocking and fascinating.

If anyone is interested in genealogy/DNA research/family trees, I highly encourage you to check out this show.

Last night's episode is already on PBS's website. I would also encourage you to watch last week's episode profiling John McCain, Patricia Arquette, and Julianne Moore. Very fascinating family histories.

:smt023
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top Bottom