Do you prefer your man to be tall or short?

The Dark King said:
Yup. We keep learning that women overall aren't as compassionate as we've been lead to believe. No blaming them either just saying we should fix the narrative to be more accurate.
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The "narrative" is just spinning on an axis. It will eventually come back to where it started, then keep progressing to nowhere.
 
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Madeleine said:
Your definition of relationships is from a very masculine point of view. That makes it right for you but not universally true.
I know a lot of women who are great friends in the long term. I happen to be someone who doesn’t quickly call someone a friend. Not all my acquaintances are friends. The people I do call friends are in my life for the long run.
As for friends with benefits... some women say they are ok with such arrangements. Most women if they had the choice would like their sexual relationships in a committed context. It doesn’t mean we want the man to do stuff because he’s obliged. Rather we want him to care so much about us that he commits himself out of his own free will and feels like giving freely to us. The point is that many men just feel more comfortable in a non-committed relationship where you just give what you want to give when you want to give. That doesn’t prove that men are better at friendships. It just proves what most people already know: Men and women have different biological programming in sexual relationships at a basic level. Women are programmed to seek a stable environment for potential offspring and men are programmed to spread the joy. There are a lot of men out there who are afraid of commitment and wrap it in all sorts of concept to justify it.
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Again, Define commitment when you're ready. Take all the time you need.

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I think the reason that most women don't "get it" is because they're looking at it as women and can't get past that way of thinking. On the flip side, guys do it too. We don't always understand where women are coming from because we're men and we think as men do and aren't interested in looking past how we view things.

With that said, because women have the final say in sex and romance, how they chose to see, or not to see, things has a much bigger effect.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
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I'm 5'11 and will never forget the 5'2 girl who said I was too short for her. As you get older women who like you honestly don't care and you're not missing anything by not being with someone who is quick to dismiss you over something as trivial as height.
Same advice always applies stack your bread explore your interests and be happy with you. Women are drawn to that shit like a magnet.
Online dating ain't for everyone I met my current through a friend and it's the best relationship of my life.
 
The Dark King said:
I'm 5'11 and will never forget the 5'2 girl who said I was too short for her. As you get older women who like you honestly don't care and you're not missing anything by not being with someone who is quick to dismiss you over something as trivial as height.
Same advice always applies stack your bread explore your interests and be happy with you. Women are drawn to that shit like a magnet.
Online dating ain't for everyone I met my current through a friend and it's the best relationship of my life.
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Height has rarely ever been an issue for me. I am 5’11.5”, and there have been maybe 2 or 3 times where a woman (under 5’3”), had issue that I was 6’1”. I’ve dated some slightly taller women. I suppose if I was less attractive in the face, or if I didn’t hit the gym so often, I would run into issues. But, 99.99% of the time, my height has never been an issue.

Everyone is entitled to their preferences. I can say the only 2 or 3 women that had an issue with my height (not really an issue just an, “I thought you’d be taller” meetup kind of thing), were not in my league in the looks department. So, I think it’s more of an insecurity thing. Kind of like those guys who always want to be seen with a super model, but don’t want to be seen with the thick girl that they actually like.

Money or not, height isn’t a huge dealbreaker for many women, unless you are 5’8” or something.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
Height has rarely ever been an issue for me. I am 5’11.5”, and there have been maybe 2 or 3 times where a woman (under 5’3”), had issue that I was 6’1”. I’ve dated some slightly taller women. I suppose if I was less attractive in the face, or if I didn’t hit the gym so often, I would run into issues. But, 99.99% of the time, my height has never been an issue.

Everyone is entitled to their preferences. I can say the only 2 or 3 women that had an issue with my height (not really an issue just an, “I thought you’d be taller” meetup kind of thing), were not in my league in the looks department. So, I think it’s more of an insecurity thing. Kind of like those guys who always want to be seen with a super model, but don’t want to be seen with the thick girl that they actually like.

Money or not, height isn’t a huge dealbreaker for many women, unless you are 5’8” or something.
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Yeah plenty of great women with dudes under 6 feet and those that hung up on superficial shit are never worth being with.
Besides the most important thing is to explore your own interests develop the skills you want a good woman isn't too far behind.
 
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