I don’t like them on women. I think a lot of us middle aged, suburban brothas’ feel the same way. I wouldn’t get one either.
I have a friend who has a bunch of them. She’s a BBW and very pretty. But, the guys she meets don’t want to be serious with her. I believe a large part of that is all of her tats. Most serious minded black guys in our age group are turned off by that.
Example, she has a nice sized picture of her grandkids’ faces on her back. It’s nice artwork. Very well done. But, imagine hitting it from behind and you’re looking at toddlers looking back at you. It would be a turn off for me and I’m assuming other black men my age would feel the same.
But, she’s super sweet, smart, has her own shit, grown kids, pretty and loyal. For guys who like big women, she’s a catch. But, all them damn tatts ...