Do you prefer your man to be tall or short?

4north1side2 said:
I wonder if black men feel immense pressure to be in incredible shape just to bag women.

I feel like the majority of bm/wm couples I see, dudes are jacked and the women are just regular.
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Middle aged man's opinion: that's cause they spend more time trying to impress their friends instead of actually learning how to communicate with women. So, they end up with average chicks because they're easier to talk to and wow (in their minds anyway). I've never seen where big muscles and six packs really got girls unless money was involved. But, I haven't been on a date with anyone outside of my gf for 12 years. So, maybe shit's changed.

This guy illustrates what I've always said; be confident and know how to talk to girls and cats will do fine. Nothing else matters. This guy isn't rich either. Lower middle class and this is who he bagged:
 
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Rochiebabes86 said:
Ok I’ll tell more hahaa. Back then the Celtics had their training camp in Newport Rhode Island, where my college girlfriends spent their summers. In 2010 we had just graduated so they stayed a month longer than they typically would. Allegedly Shaq took a liking to my girlfriend one night The way it was explained to me sounded like Shaq is indeed Superman but size wise he is a victim of expectations.
My understanding was that the players enjoyed the Newport scene a lot. The year before Shaq joined the team my girl told me a girl she knew who hooked up with Paul Pierce, which made me just a little jelly
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Sounds like a lot of fun. And Shaq is a huge man, so even if he was equipped like a horse, it would look small.
 
4north1side2 said:
I wonder if black men feel immense pressure to be in incredible shape just to bag women.

I feel like the majority of bm/wm couples I see, dudes are jacked and the women are just regular.
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I think the pressure is there. I’ve been a bodybuilder since my teenage years, so, I don’t notice really. But, friends I’ve had in the past, would ask for advice because women in general (black, white, and everything in between), were expecting abs, muscles, and so on. I think it might especially rings true for brothas under 6 foot.

Being able to communicate with women, being charming, and successful helps across the board. But if you look like a shlub, she can’t know anything about your personality if she is turned off by your looks.

So, I guess, short, out of shape, uggos probably have it the worst.
 
meowkittenmeow said:
I think the pressure is there. I’ve been a bodybuilder since my teenage years, so, I don’t notice really. But, friends I’ve had in the past, would ask for advice because women in general (black, white, and everything in between), were expecting abs, muscles, and so on. I think it might especially rings true for brothas under 6 foot.

Being able to communicate with women, being charming, and successful helps across the board. But if you look like a shlub, she can’t know anything about your personality if she is turned off by your looks.

So, I guess, short, out of shape, uggos probably have it the worst.
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I don't think being muscular (or tall) is the most prominent stereotype most black guys have to deal with lol
 
samson1701 said:
Middle aged man's opinion: that's cause they spend more time trying to impress their friends instead of actually learning how to communicate with women. So, they end up with average chicks because they're easier to talk to and wow (in their minds anyway). I've never seen where big muscles and six packs really got girls unless money was involved. But, I haven't been on a date with anyone outside of my gf for 12 years. So, maybe shit's changed.

This guy illustrates what I've always said; be confident and know how to talk to girls and cats will do fine. Nothing else matters. This guy isn't rich either. Lower middle class and this is who he bagged:
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God damn, she is cute.
 
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