I'm glad I somehow stumbled upon this site. I need to take time to read through all the comments, before I actually respond to someone's comments, but I still wanted to make a statement regardless. I find it odd that every sexual preference or attraction is being given its day in the sun, but we still can't equally find a place to declare our love for White women or black men. There are no Interracial Partner rallies, parades, marches, etc. If there was ever a group that needed an open platform were we support of one another it would have to be us. We are perhaps the only sexual preference that is polarized by racists views. I watch some of the youtubers, and while they may cover some angles on why a Black man might possibly want to date & marry white women (usually negative), it never seems a consideration that they are in fact beautiful sexy, and down-right irresistible. While I do like Black women as friends, I have never been particularly attracted to them. Although I did (in my earlier years) give in to social conventions, and married a Black women, outside of skin color and some of the music we listened to, we had absolutely nothing in common. Rather, I found myself living a double life, and even though I loved my then wife, my heart & soul belonged in the arms of a white-women, and it became painfully obvious over time. Believe me, it's not that there aren't black women who are attractive, etc. But it's just that... there is just something magical about white women.
Well, I hope from now on out, you find what you are looking for, and learn to be true to yourself. I see some of what you are saying, or I think so, I do not think this OP is saying WW/BM pairings are abnormal or exotic, they are normal relationships, and for me personally, my attraction feels so good and so right. However, we are in the minority in a sense that it seems most people pair up with ones from their own backgrounds; race, culture, economics, social status etc.
I find the comment on things in common interesting, since some who feel that people should stay with their own or prefer their own will say something along the lines of that there will be a certain degree of compatibility automatically, and they will automatically understand one another because they come from the same backgrounds, and it is just easier and there will be less strife in their relationship.
I just had a kind of disappointing experience with this myself, the guy and I are ok, as friends or friendly online, but he preferred his own kind so to speak, was just not meant to be.
I see a parallel with WW/BM struggles with other groups like gays in that they did not have the right to marry until well into the 1960s. There has been struggle, and WW/BM pairings have been one of the most scandalized pairs.
Of course, we are actually one human family, from a strictly biological standpoint, we share 99% or more DNA, so whatever divisions or whatever come up are artificial and human made, really.
just my 2 cents, not trying to stir the pot.
