Cheaters

I don't know, I'm not the professional judge here!
If being a social worker I judged people like that, I shouldn't help anybody becuse they would be, in no particular order:
- drunk alcoholics because they wanted it;
- cheating sluts wives because they didn't make up their mind;
- horrible parents;
- toxic fiends because theylike to be drug fiends;
- bitter and bastard elders because they tried to change their morals as they wanted in life,
and so on :D
 
ThickShawty said:
I don't know, I'm not the professional judge here!
If being a social worker I judged people like that, I shouldn't help anybody becuse they would be, in no particular way:-
- drunk alcoholics because they wanted it;
- cheating sluts wives because they didn't make up their mind;
- horrible parents;
- toxic fiends because they wanted it;
- bitter and bastard elders because they tried to change their morals as they wanted in life,
and so on :D
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I'm an old slow grunt so forgive me. I didn't understand what you were trying to say.
 
andrae09 said:
At what point did I keep "bothering" her when she said stop?
And I call bullshit. We all make judgements based on things that have nothing to do with us. Judgements were flying all over the place in the Tiger threads. As far as the togetherness this site promotes I'm all for it but nothing I said had anything to do with her dating bm. If I posted something about be fucking a ton of different girls a bunch of opinions would be formed so we're all subject to it in one way or another. And I was being honest about how I felt about what she was saying its not my fault that it came across to her and others as judgemental. And since I created the thread I think I'm aware of the topic Book.
I get what you guys are doing and its comendable. Stick up for your friend but I'm not holding my togue on a public forum. I didn't attack her and I wasn't rude. So...
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Me and Bookie have never been friends outside this forum so I don't think she is doing me a favor just because.
anyways, i tried to close the discussions post ago. now you said the last word. can we stop now? please?
 
I think the bottom line is that if people can't feel free to be honest and open and share experiences without being personally and openly judged and jumped on for it, what kind of forum will this be??

There were plenty of people who felt the same way about you in this thread, Andrae, who expressed their opinions, but didn't feel the need to get on Shawty's back (or me or Fresh for that matter) and make them feel bad for their choices. Those people knew when to say something and knew when to hold back.

And I don't think anyone came in here celebrating cheating and professing it to be a fantastic thing that we're proud to participate in, we were just having and open and honest dialogue. Which will never happen again if people are scared to really share for fear of what others will say.
 
andrae09 said:
Do you know what the word hypocritical means?
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Let me ask you a few questions. Have you ever stuck your dick in a woman you wasn't married too? If your answer is yes then you are also a self serving person who adjust his morals to suite his wants. Fuckin a woman that you're not married too is just as wrong as cheating. Have you ever lied about anything? If you say you haven't then you're not just a fornicator, but you're also a liar, which is just as bad as being a cheater. When people lie they usually do it for their own benefit. So basically people who tell lies are adjusting their morals to suite his/her wants. That would make you just as immoral as she is.

I don't know where you from, but around here if question a persons character that's a direct insult. You're not even man enough to step any nigga around here and question their character because you know that you would get your ass beat. What you said to TS was offensive. You questioned her character so she had every right to be offended. You don't know her like that. Who the fuck do you think you are faggot? If question your manhood (which I do) I don't have to call you a bitch ass nigga to do it. I can simply suggest that you possess a lot of feminine quality. Would you take as I'm just keeping real or would you be offended? TS is a nice girl and she doesn't deserve to be disrespected. You owe an apology.
 
Trey, please, it's ok. I could handle it by myself :) don't start offending Andrae.
The thing is closed for me so don't make it alive again, will you? thank you :)
 
I think at the end of the day we will all have to answer for only ourselves. So while we may judge others there is no purpose to doing so. You can't push your morals on me. You are not my keeper. Follow your own moral compass and the world will be happier.

I am glad that people felt comfortable enough to post their experiences in this thread.
 
Trey1540 said:
Let me ask you a few questions. Have you ever stuck your dick in a woman you wasn't married too? If your answer is yes then you are also a self serving person who adjust his morals to suite his wants. Fuckin a woman that you're not married too is just as wrong as cheating. Have you ever lied about anything? If you say you haven't then you're not just a fornicator, but you're also a liar, which is just as bad as being a cheater. When people lie they usually do it for their own benefit. So basically people who tell lies are adjusting their morals to suite his/her wants. That would make you just as immoral as she is.

I don't know where you from, but around here if question a persons character that's a direct insult. You're not even man enough to step any nigga around here and question their character because you know that you would get your ass beat. What you said to TS was offensive. You questioned her character so she had every right to be offended. You don't know her like that. Who the fuck do you think you are faggot? If question your manhood (which I do) I don't have to call you a bitch ass nigga to do it. I can simply suggest that you possess a lot of feminine quality. Would you take as I'm just keeping real or would you be offended? TS is a nice girl and she doesn't deserve to be disrespected. You owe an apology.
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Oh boy another internet tough guy. If I don't apologize what are you gonna do. You're gonna talk more tough guy shit and go back to posting incoherent bullshit that sets educated up standing black men 100 years. Thanks for being a dummy I'm sure it relfects on all of us well.
 
andrae09 said:
Oh boy another internet tough guy. If I don't apologize what are you gonna do. You're gonna talk more tough guy shit and go back to posting incoherent bullshit that sets educated up standing black men 100 years. Thanks for being a dummy I'm sure it relfects on all of us well.
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hey i'm an internet tough guy too...!!! i'm the original e-thug....!!! :smt066
 
whikle said:
I think the bottom line is that if people can't feel free to be honest and open and share experiences without being personally and openly judged and jumped on for it, what kind of forum will this be??

There were plenty of people who felt the same way about you in this thread, Andrae, who expressed their opinions, but didn't feel the need to get on Shawty's back (or me or Fresh for that matter) and make them feel bad for their choices. Those people knew when to say something and knew when to hold back.

And I don't think anyone came in here celebrating cheating and professing it to be a fantastic thing that we're proud to participate in, we were just having and open and honest dialogue. Which will never happen again if people are scared to really share for fear of what others will say.
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This is exactly it. This forum's environment should be one of open discussion, not people afraid of reprisals.

I hate judgmental people. I grew up with a judgmental family. Some of my friends are extremely judgmental. I'm tired of deflecting these comments by people who are insecure. Why the hell should I also have to endure it here??

Like the saying goes: let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

I have judged others in my life (like others have said, who hasn't??), but I know how horrible it feels to be judged, especially when I know that the people judging me have it all wrong, but you can't reason with judgmental people. Therefore, I try to restrain myself from passing judgment on others. I know how it feels, and it sucks. I'm not St. Peter at the pearly gates. Nor is anyone else.

I've said my peace and I'm out of this thread.

This forum should be a good environment for people to want to share their thoughts and experiences, but we can do it in a respectful manner. And respect for others seems to be something we can all work on. Just because it's online, doesn't mean the horrible things being said about others doesn't sting the person others are talking about.

Let's all act like adults and treat each other like we would treat people in our real lives: with filters. It's not that hard to do. I do it every day here.
 
Bookworm616 said:
This is exactly it. This forum's environment should be one of open discussion, not people afraid of reprisals.

I hate judgmental people. I grew up with a judgmental family. Some of my friends are extremely judgmental. I'm tired of deflecting these comments by people who are insecure. Why the hell should I also have to endure it here??

Like the saying goes: let he who is without sin cast the first stone.

I have judged others in my life (like others have said, who hasn't??), but I know how horrible it feels to be judged, especially when I know that the people judging me have it all wrong, but you can't reason with judgmental people. Therefore, I try to restrain myself from passing judgment on others. I know how it feels, and it sucks. I'm not St. Peter at the pearly gates. Nor is anyone else.

I've said my peace and I'm out of this thread.

This forum should be a good environment for people to want to share their thoughts and experiences, but we can do it in a respectful manner. And respect for others seems to be something we can all work on. Just because it's online, doesn't mean the horrible things being said about others doesn't sting the person others are talking about.

Let's all act like adults and treat each other like we would treat people in our real lives: with filters. It's not that hard to do. I do it every day here.
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gawd I think I am going to like it here.
 
I don't care who judges me, let them come. Someone else opinion of me with NEVER trump my opinion of myself. If people want to judge me, have at it. If they get it right, great...if they get it wrong...great.

I simply never gave much thought to who thought what about me. Meh.....but I am cut from a different cloth.

I will agree with one thing, there should be respect given even on a basic level to people's opinions that differ from your own.
 
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