Nerdy Girl
New Member
We never were intimate with the other before being married, that's why. What, are all women supposed to make an immediate decision about one's sexual needs with the future husband, before we marry him? Some choose not to have pre-marital sex with the intended spouse.
I'm not judging the choice to have premarital sex or not, but presumably there was something that made you want to marry this man and have a family with him, right? And now you refer to him as a "nothing" whose only value is as a source of monetary support? Oy....
(And you are comfortable having extramarital sex but not premarital sex? Interesting thing, that.)