Which Type of White Girl Is For You?

Apparently crazy ones. Its like there's no passion unless they're a little bat shit. Missing my ex from last year. This a definite first.
 
The Dark Knight said:
Apparently crazy ones. Its like there's no passion unless they're a little bat shit. Missing my ex from last year. This a definite first.
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Passion and sensuality minus the bat-shit tendencies. That would be more like it for me.

Add someone who is intelligent and insightful. Someone who speaks more than language is a big plus too. Dark hair, dark skin and brown eyes is my kryptonite.
 
This is very interesting. Obviously I would be the European girl.
But;
I dance since I was 7 years old- but I am not a hip hop girl: I don´t talk slang, I talk very proper (also known as television-talking). I also don´t like tatoos, piercings etc..
I wear earrings- but mostly pearls.
I dress very classy/elegant.
Even though people in America put me into the category of a `prep´(Or as you call it All American White Cheerleader girl) when they first meet me..people come up to me and tell me how nice I am and that when they met me first actually thought that I was going to be mean.
Also, they were really surprised about my humor. I LOVE TO LAUGH and to ENJOY LIFE. I am a very passionate, strong headed person and I know what I want in life and go for it.
I am friends with literally everyone.

Sorry about my English- I know it is getting worse and worse since I am back in Europe. I am back for almost 6 months- crazy!
 
PeyBackTime8818 said:
I think I remember her exact words were: "My need to be accepted by my family, friends, and society outweighs my feelings for you. There should be more to a relationship than just good sex. I don't love you the way you love me and I don't see myself spending the rest of my life with you."

As for the types of girls I go for, I'd have to say it is usually the upper class ritzy "I think I'm too good for everyone" types. I dunno why I aim so high. Maybe it is to prove I can get them. Maybe it is because I want a woman who makes good money, that I can trust, and won't become a gold digging, lazy baby factory who can't pull her weight. I'll be the first to admit I can sometimes be a glutton for the punishment and I put up with too much drama and bullsh*t just because of how she looks. Therefore I try to put my foot down and make rules but then, as in most of my relationships, I've been told that I'm too controlling and possessive because of that. It's like either way I can't win.

Then every once a while, like these past few months, I try for the lower class "ghetto, hip hop girl" types and figure it will be less stress but it turns out to be even MORE stress. This last girl I dated (and spent this recent Thanksgiving with her and her parents) seemed like a fun and beautiful blonde Italian girl and ended up being a drug addict who had done every drug you can think of and lied to me about her abusive ex-boyfriend still being in her life. Whenever I fail with the previously mentioned classy girls whom i consider marriage material, I begin to settle for the "fixer uppers" and try to make them into respectable, "take home to mom" types, but it never works. I've had several of these types of girls. No job having, weed smoking, party all the time, no plans for the future sluts. It's like I'm either dating women who are too good for me (or at least they think they are) or women who are clearly not good enough. And it seems like all the women that are "on my level" are either taken or not attracted to me (or maybe I'm not looking in the right places).
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If upper girls are what you want, don´t think you are not good enough just because of your race- NEVER! I am upper class- popular-funny...so what? I WAS NEVER ASHAMED TO BE SEEN WITH MY BM. go for what you want, there are definitely more girls like me out there. Especially in Europe! If she was ashamed of you in any way- then she wasn´t right for you. Noone of my friends cares about race, the world is changing and it is becoming better and better- as long as you are confident and go for your dream, you will get anything you want! ;)

Also, noone in my family cares, my mom is a doctor and so are all her sisters- her brothers are lawyers. They all treat my BM for who he is inside.
 
Avia said:
...there are definitely more girls like me out there. Especially in Europe!...
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That's what I keep trying to tell people. Understandably, American women get offended by this notion.,. but that doesn't make it any less true.
 
jaisee said:
That's what I keep trying to tell people. Understandably, American women get offended by this notion.,. but that doesn't make it any less true.
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That doesn´t mean that American WW are all racists. Definitely not!
We just have a totally different history here and we have been raised differently.
When I started dating my bm, I didn´t even realize he was black- that just shows that I really don´t care about color.
 
Avia said:
That doesn´t mean that American WW are all racists. Definitely not!
We just have a totally different history here and we have been raised differently.
When I started dating my bm, I didn´t even realize he was black- that just shows that I really don´t care about color.
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No, not all American WW are racists. Not by any stretch of the imagination.
Culturally European WW are very different from American WW and in my opinion and in my experience it is generally a more pleasant experience approaching European WW. In fact, in my few visits to Europe the women were more likely to approach me if they were interested.
 
jaisee said:
No, not all American WW are racists. Not by any stretch of the imagination.
Culturally European WW are very different from American WW and in my opinion and in my experience it is generally a more pleasant experience approaching European WW. In fact, in my few visits to Europe the women were more likely to approach me if they were interested.
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Cosign. I still don't get why some American ww get offended hearing this considering our country's history.
 
jaisee said:
Nobody wants to be on the short end of a sweeping generalization. I can understand that. It doesn't change my stance on the topic though.
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Interesting. I wonder why someone would get upset when they've experienced differently. I guess you have a valid point though.
 
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