Cheaters

satyr said:
Note: Polygamy is illegal in all fifty states and the Mormon church outlawed it in the nineteenth century. The faction(s) of Mormonism (FLDS) where you'll find a version of polygamy still in practice largely exist outside of Utah, and those "marriages" are not recognized by the rule of law.
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Yes this is all true, swirl made a very salient point also. My intention is just to push the boundries of the assumed cultural norms in the arguments a bit. Just a pc way of saying shit stirring.

Thanks for rep TdK
 
TreePixie said:
It depends on what you mean, Loki. Going through multiple pregnancies can and sometimes does have an impact on a woman's body - some women can do it with ease, and others not so much - that's genetics. To expect eating sensibly and exercising to erase stretch marks, or to keep breasts firm, etc is not realistic. Men age as well. You can't help thinning hair - it's genetic for some men to go bald, and I would not expect a woman to cheat on her husband because he didn't win the genetic lottery.Men's erections also get softer as they age, and the refractory period gets longer. Women don't have an excuse to cheat because they prefer the firmness of a 25 year old dick over the softer erection of a 50 year old.

You mention tragedy - if illness strikes, there may be a physical impact depending on the disease. Does a man have an excuse to cheat because his wife has to have a mastectomy? Can a woman cheat if a man loses a testicle to cancer?
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TP, we can agree, as I stated in my first post, that in case of an illness or other tragedy, that falls under "for better or worse" in the marriage vows, and in my opinion it means that a person should stick by their spouse.

I most certainly was not promoting the idea that either spouse must not ever show signs of aging as the years progress. My point in my original post was that it is not immature or unreasonable for a spouse to expect their mate to continue to do all they can nutrition and physical fitness wise, as the years go by, for both the aesthetic and health benefits they can bring to the relationship.
 
satyr said:
Note: Polygamy is illegal in all fifty states and the Mormon church outlawed it in the nineteenth century. The faction(s) of Mormonism (FLDS) where you'll find a version of polygamy still in practice largely exist outside of Utah, and those "marriages" are not recognized by the rule of law.
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Interesting note, according to some personal business associates/friends of mine who live in Utah and are Mormon, the primary reason the church got rid of polygamy was that it was a condition set forth by the government for the state of Utah to be admitted to the union. They claim that the church still feels that polygamy is indeed a divine right, but that it is just not practical to practice at this point in time, should a time come when they feel it is a viable option from a political standpoint, they would have no problem teaching it as doctrine again.

I was a bit shocked on my initial visits to Salt Lake to find that there is a small minority yet statistically significant number of households within Utah that are indeed still quietly practicing polygamy, the local authorities know who they are but pretty much turn a blind eye as long as they are not blatant.
 
blk4ww said:
Because there's women willing to cheat with us. Ya know. When a man cheats he cheats with another woman. Question should be "Why are women willing to cheat with married men"
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Let's not let this train de-rail...how about the men who don't reveal that they're married??
 
blk4ww said:
What about the men that do tell? There's signs that men has a wife or woman. Why do u only hear from him at certain times everyday? He calls u and not the other way around? He never takes u out or be seen with u in public?. Etc. Just to name a few.
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But some married men cheat w/random women.

I think the reasons why people cheat are as individual as the person. I don't know - I was faithful.
 
Regardless of whatever excuse used to "explain" it, the simple truth is that people cheat because they want to.
 
Men cheat for the same reason that Women cheat.



BECAUSE THEY ARE SELFISH (This is only in regards to the men and women who cheat not everyone).

Everyone has an excuse for what they do. But, the truth is, it is all about "Them". What they want and so on.
 
very simple i dont care why someone cheat not my problem.. and what is cheat this days anyways?
hmm some people will think i cheat because am here, or because of the pics i posted...

but all come down that everyone have a different opinion as to what right and wrong
 
Nyx said:
very simple i dont care why someone cheat not my problem.. and what is cheat this days anyways?
hmm some people will think i cheat because am here, or because of the pics i posted...

but all come down that everyone have a different opinion as to what right and wrong
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You have a point. So this thread should be "Why do men f@%k other women"? But that's a matter of opinion also. Some can deal with their man sexing a woman oppose to getting that emotional attachment. Hmmm,, but if you combine b4k, LAW, & Tam's responses,,, that might be the answer: women except it/partake themselves, everyone's selfish and engage at will.

Who knows. I'm sleepy. G'night. Lol
 
Stizzy said:
You have a point. So this thread should be "Why do men f@%k other women"? But that's a matter of opinion also. Some can deal with their man sexing a woman oppose to getting that emotional attachment. Hmmm,, but if you combine b4k, LAW, & Tam's responses,,, that might be the answer: women except it/partake themselves, everyone's selfish and engage at will.

Who knows. I'm sleepy. G'night. Lol
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like i said dont care much :p
was just bored ..
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It's a selfish act yes.
Sometimes motivated by not getting needs met with in a marriage. Which can be a selfishly motivated act on the part of the other spouse.

There are many different types of infidelity as well. Having sex is only one example
 
IF YOU LET HER FIND OUT YOU'RE CHEATING

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luvattractivewomen said:
Men cheat for the same reason that Women cheat.



BECAUSE THEY ARE SELFISH (This is only in regards to the men and women who cheat not everyone).

Everyone has an excuse for what they do. But, the truth is, it is all about "Them". What they want and so on.
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I've cheated on a boyfriend before and from a female perspective on this topic I can honestly say I did it purely out of...... wanting both people. In my mind it was like "whatcha don't know won't hurt you... and i'm gonna get mine". I'd say as a general consensus that most people don't cheat as a malicious act so much as simply fulfilling a selfish desire.

I'm not saying it's not wrong. It is. I would never want to do something like that these days because I love my boyfriend, don't really having any unsatisfying feelings, and genuinely care about the relationship... I think it's a maturity thing, really. Hedonism.

Either way, I think it's a pretty funny stigma that men cheat more then women. False. Women can get laid much easier then any man and are much better at manipulating the situation and most of all.... pulling it off.
 
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