Im seriously not trying to start anything but you dont see how thats passive aggressive?
Seriously?!!! :smt081 I'm just making a comment!! The OP is saying that, in general, WM do this and BM do that, but what he's describing as WM behavior actually fits my last bf to a T and he's not white. If you call that being passive aggressive, whatever! To you, ANYTHING I say is passive aggressive.
Take your own suggestion, birthday boy - put me on ignore.