what do white women love about black men?

brooklynny said:
I have to get ready... I appreciate the words from all.

Very good rebuttal. I am impressed. You did not attack me or try to use insults. Please continue. Ill make this brief...

This is an internet forum. I don't think meeting someone here whether online or in person is a healthy thing for me. I have my picture and words on Tumblr, FB, etc but I rather stay anonymous here.

[You mentioned labels... Doesn't this site revolve around the labels placed on "interracial dating" and also the labels we place on ourselves?

Sites like this seem created out of protest because the sub-culture in society is against us. After reading words from this site, it seems more of a counter-culture. Counter-cultures are deviant yet is using labels to classify how we love, feel, relate, perceive, and communicate healthy?

I use the term, healthy very broadly.

Challenging a label such as "interracial" should not define my exclusion or inclusion into its community. <---Think about this.

Have a good day.
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Do you find it easier to use a ladder?
 
chesbaygrl7 said:
This.

I told one guy who boasted of 11 inches that I didn't know what to do with 4 or 5 of them. :smt102
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LOL, that's hilarious. I'm so gonna steal this for future use.

The Dark King said:
Seems a little unlikely for most since you would think the bigger you are the more nerve endings you're hitting but I will admit bottoming out isn't really fun for either party.
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Sweetie, the nerv endings that really matter the most are not DEEP INSIDE the vagina. If that was the case no woman would ever be able to wear a tampon all day without getting aroused. Sorry for using that example to explain it, I know most men don't want to know those details.
 
brooklynny said:
This is an internet forum. I don't think meeting someone here whether online or in person is a healthy thing for me.
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I think you might be on point with this.
Since we don't want to harm your well being, may I suggest that you just stay away from us? Like really far?


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brooklynny said:
Am I rude because I do not stay in my place? That place whereas being stereotypical and using sexual humor about ones penis is the norm for "BM"? I am rude because I dare to provide thoughtful rebuttals, which shows some form of non-stereotypical awareness… I see.

Sure, if I communicate like "Black Knight" or "Black bull” and stay in my place, this would please the same individuals who consider my words rude...

Why should he dare to show some form of individuality? This is interracial dating! You can't be different. If he is different therefore I should be different as his mate. You have to joke about having a large penis to continue myths and stereotypes that the few here eat up like cornbread at Thanksgiving.

Well, I see a problem with staying in my place to make members here accept me. I rather be dislike and even hated than to fall prey to owning a collective identity.

Once again, to disagree with my words is not the same as those words being "rude". I find many threads and posts on this site disturbing yet I will never deny that person the freedom to share.

To be perceived as "self-righteous" is fine by me. At least I stand for something profound. At least I have the ability to be an individual. At least I can challenge whereas many resist and conjoin.

Ms. Raider, do not blame me if the men you date, sorry, the Black Men you date do not have the ability to think and live as individuals. Do not blame me because I do not subscribe to "the black man's guide to all things stereotypical and sexual." I am not perfect; no human being is, however, I will not be the image you want.

If an intelligent man with morals and decency scares you, perhaps, you can contact the FBI to be placed in witness protection. I see I am a criminal of just being me.

BTW, I make people think on this site. I want to make people challenge themselves and beliefs through words. I have made strangers now interested in this thread. I can take any criticism but no one (including moderation) can deny people are more active. This is not my intention however it feels good to know people are thinking.


To all have a good day.
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For me it's just a natural attraction, it's hard to explain... much as it would be difficult to pinpoint exactly why I like air or why I like water. Black men are just sexy to me... I've always felt that way about them. I love their skin and their perfect naturally toned bodies. I love the shape of their heads, shoulders and torso... I love their eyes, I love the luscious lips, their resounding voice, their subtle and deep sense of humor and their timeless features... I could go on forever. But you get the idea. I also find that black men are more empathetic and selfless than white men are, who tend to be very self-serving and self-centered. Black men resolutely help old women cross the street, hold doors for people, say pleasant things and smile at you on the street, help people out when they are in need, etc... I almost never see white men doing those things. Black men are also protectors, they will fight for you.
 
AngelaFox said:
For me it's just a natural attraction, it's hard to explain... much as it would be difficult to pinpoint exactly why I like air or why I like water. Black men are just sexy to me... I've always felt that way about them. I love their skin and their perfect naturally toned bodies. I love the shape of their heads, shoulders and torso... I love their eyes, I love the luscious lips, their resounding voice, their subtle and deep sense of humor and their timeless features... I could go on forever. But you get the idea. I also find that black men are more empathetic and selfless than white men are, who tend to be very self-serving and self-centered. Black men resolutely help old women cross the street, hold doors for people, say pleasant things and smile at you on the street, help people out when they are in need, etc... I almost never see white men doing those things. Black men are also protectors, they will fight for you.
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And you're from Chicago? Interesting pov wish the media interviewed more people like you
 
The Dark King said:
And you're from Chicago? Interesting pov wish the media interviewed more people like you
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Yup, from the Chi! Born and raised. And the media are so biased the word 'biased' should used in the definition of 'media'... just ignore it. It's been a year since I watched TV, can you believe it?
 
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I'm new to this site I tread lightly. :smt006

. I dated many different types over the years, and the only man who left a strong impression on me, was my black companion. I'm talking to him again of late, so we'll see how it goes. In the meantime, that's a man who loves his mama (now passed away) and treats women the way they should be treated. We have a problem sometimes, with knowing how we SHOULD be treated and respected, because of how we're used to being treated. It depends on individual men. If you listen to rap, you'd wonder if all black men thought us as bitches and hoes....so like I said, it depends on the men. I've just been lucky to date an amazing black man, and have a second chance with him.

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For some reason some of my post cut off.

I was saying, I grew up in a household of boys and a father who hated women and were disrespectful to them, so I never saw just how toxic they were until recently, and I've cut them from my life now. They all talk trash about my mother (THEIR mother) and they're passing this attitude to my 13 yr old son, so I chose to cut them out to save him from becoming like them. These are all white males, and I can name about 50 more who I've known, just like them. I can't say that about black men. I can say it about HIspanic men because I married a hateful Hispanic man, and many of his friends and relatives were just as cruel towards women. According to them, we were all stupid bitches etc.

All of the black men I've worked with, hung out with, and the one I've dated - just the opposite, so while I know this doesn't cover ALL men, it covers a lot of those I've personally dealt with. I love that so many great black women have raised such wonderful sons who grow up to be good men and good husbands, etc. That's my two cents!!
 
The black men I have known are smooth and confident. They enjoy every day and don't stress over as much as non blacks. Always have a great time filled with lots of laughter. As far as love making goes, well.......***********WOW!!!!! ***********Just sayin'............
 
RestlessRita said:
The black men I have known are smooth and confident. They enjoy every day and don't stress over as much as non blacks. Always have a great time filled with lots of laughter. As far as love making goes, well.......***********WOW!!!!! ***********Just sayin'............
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Thanks a lot for the love for us Rita! You're a lovely lady...;)
 
RestlessRita said:
The black men I have known are smooth and confident. They enjoy every day and don't stress over as much as non blacks. Always have a great time filled with lots of laughter. As far as love making goes, well.......***********WOW!!!!! ***********Just sayin'............
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Love this post. Thanks for the very kind words.
 
AngelaFox said:
For me it's just a natural attraction...
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This has always been true for me as well. There is good and bad in every culture/ethnicity. I have dated black males, and caucasian males. In my dating choices I have discovered that I prefer the way a black man's voice touches my ear, and how his heart touches my heart. I enjoy kissing, and that plays a huge role in my choice. I sincerely cannot abide being kissed and all I am feeling on my tender lips, is teeth. The thought gives me a shudder. It has also been my experience that black men are more forthright in communication, and I absolutely appreciate that.

My memories of being loved well, which includes each and all of those relationship details involved in partnership synergy, excludes a caucasian partner from my consideration of a life partner. :freehug:
 
AngelaFox said:
Yup, from the Chi! Born and raised. And the media are so biased the word 'biased' should used in the definition of 'media'... just ignore it. It's been a year since I watched TV, can you believe it?
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I'm in Chicago as well, and unfortunately there's not enough IR. The white women here are way less open to black men than women in the east coast, west coast, and even the South.
 
One can only speak for oneself, so I will tell you why I like black men. First, I have just always been attracted to dark men. No explanation. Just always been that way. My experiences with black men have been great. I enjoy how black men treat me. They are very attentive, call me names like Sexy and Baby amongst others, they seem to enjoy the moment (generally speaking). They are smooth and make me feel good about myself. Nothing more beautiful than a black body and white body intertwined. Mmmmm. Last, but not least, black men REALLY know how to make love to a woman. There's no going back for me. I am only interested in dating black men at this point.
That's just me...............:p
 
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