Attraction to Black Men = Perversion?

Tamstrong said:
I've encountered that crap countless times over the years...the big dick comments, thinking I want every black man I see ("There's you one, Tammy!"), and tons of questions about whether or not all the sexual stereotypes are true, etc. It's like they can't wrap their small minds around the fact that my attraction to black men isn't based on a fetish or stereotypes. I guess in their minds black men aren't people; they evidently see them as walking talking giant penises.

It's irritating and sad, but over time I've gotten so used to it that I just shake my head, make various smart ass remarks, and keep it moving.

I've only had one man get weird about me dating other black men, but I didn't care what he thought any more than I care what anyone else thinks.

Loving black men has always been a natural, pure, and beautiful thing for me as well. Even though there are fools who see it as something deviant, trashy, and ugly; I refuse to let their fucked up thinking take away from what it really is for me.
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This! Every time I mention to a friend that I find black men attractive it is met with some variety of ‘oh, you must want a big dick’ type comment and it is so irritating

My attraction to black men is very much about, what at least I see. A quiet confidence and a masculinity that is just so different from a lot of white men. But they also seem to be very passionate and proud, while confidence and pride can be arrogant at times, which is a huge turn off for me, it is so much more about how they carry themselves

I’m not the best with words so hopefully that makes sense
 
Makena said:
This! Every time I mention to a friend that I find black men attractive it is met with some variety of ‘oh, you must want a big dick’ type comment and it is so irritating

My attraction to black men is very much about, what at least I see. A quiet confidence and a masculinity that is just so different from a lot of white men. But they also seem to be very passionate and proud, while confidence and pride can be arrogant at times, which is a huge turn off for me, it is so much more about how they carry themselves

I’m not the best with words so hopefully that makes sense
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Makes sense to me, appreciate the kind words about BM:D
 
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