Cheaters

The Dark Knight said:
With dumb motherfuckas like you out there they'll never run out of customers for pharma companies
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I never caught an STD ever, thanks for the concern. The dumb motherfucker is you because I know you've never requested your partner to take a STD test and be shown the results before having sex and vice versa.
 
4north1side2 said:
I never caught an STD ever, thanks for the concern. The dumb motherfucker is you because I know you've never requested your partner to take a STD test and be shown the results before having sex and vice versa.
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lmao says the dummy with a bunch of side chicks. Dude seriously all jokes aside too many black people are dying of AIDS. Be careful its crazy out there and we'd hate to lose you over some dumb shit. Stay healthy brother
 
The Dark Knight said:
lmao says the dummy with a bunch of side chicks. Dude seriously all jokes aside too many black people are dying of AIDS. Be careful its crazy out there and we'd hate to lose you over some dumb shit. Stay healthy brother
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That, and eventually running into a bunny boiler....
 
So messy ...How's your soul doing in all of it?

4north1side2 said:
Lying is very benefical at times to keep the peace between all parties... for example I went out with my chick on the side and she was grilling me making some of the same assumptions some of the women in this thread are making of cheaters "Something must be missing from your marriage since your with me", "You sound bitter", etc

I crushed her ego when I told her "our relationship is perfect and I'm loving my life right now, honestly I have 10 other side chicks :smt081 you think your the only one?" She got mad as fuck so I had to back off and say I was lying making a joke to bring back the peace.

Oh well, live your life peoples.
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I admire your candor here. While most guys like you (and there are PLENTY) don't have 10 women, they do have at least one on the side, if not 2-3. There are maybe even men here who do, but won't ever tell it in a post like you just did.
I can see a woman messing with you get her feelings hurt when you tell her she's not special. Bitches that physically mess with married men want nothing more than to think they have something your wife doesn't. And she does -- a different pussy.

But like FG and TDK said, a bunny boiler and The Package is in your future, so you better be careful.
 
The Dark Knight said:
To me cheating is about having sex outside of the relationship or forming an emotional attachment to someone else. Nothing petty as a trip to the store fam
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I don't know if my perspective is COMPLETELY warped or not.. but I'm much more concerned with my dude building an emotional attachment to another woman then getting his dick wet. Sex is sex (although of course it can mean more when you're in a relationship and in love).

Cheating is annoying and hurtful.. but forgivable. I have 5 male roomates (who are DOGS!!!) and so I feel in some ways I have a good understanding of he male psyche in some ways. Pussy is pussy/Fun is fun. Having AFFAIR on the other hand is totally fucked up in my bool. -and I'm not talking as a matter of principle so much as a matter of actual feelings. That shit SMARTS!
 
JordanC said:
I'm with you. Their actions, on both parts, says neither are committed to their relationship and in that case why bother being in it. :smt069
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I think there are lots of reasons to be in a relationship besides owning your partners dick.

My dude and I are kindred spirits, we have one anothers back, we have non stop fun, we ALWAYS want to hang together because HOMIES, great sex, we're attracted to one another... It's only NATURAL for us to fall into a relationship with one another.

Regardless of our lack of commitment there is not a doubt in my mind that we are learning things from each other and that we thoroughly love one another as people... not just as someone that is obligated to us.
 
Because we cannot get away with a lot of things and will pay for the consequences of those actions, we keep ourselves in check. The scenario here is that you CAN get away with it without EVER getting caught and human nature suggests most people will do something if they know they will NEVER be caught and that includes cheating. I give props for the ones whose conscience weigh heavily on them and cant do it even if they know they wont ever be caught.
 
APPIAH said:
Because we cannot get away with a lot of things and will pay for the consequences of those actions, we keep ourselves in check. The scenario here is that you CAN get away with it without EVER getting caught and human nature suggests most people will do something if they know they will NEVER be caught and that includes cheating. I give props for the ones whose conscience weigh heavily on them and cant do it even if they know they wont ever be caught.
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Well I suppose the question then is; is the fact that it would eat at one's conscious really any different than those who actually go through with it? Shouldn't it be an issue of having ABSOLUTELY NO DESIRE TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE/BE ATTRACTED SEXUALLY, as opposed to not doing it because one could not live with their own guilty conscious?
 
Bliss said:
Well I suppose the question then is; is the fact that it would eat at one's conscious really any different than those who actually go through with it? Shouldn't it be an issue of having ABSOLUTELY NO DESIRE TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE/BE ATTRACTED SEXUALLY, as opposed to not doing it because one could not live with their own guilty conscious?
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Is that really realistic though? Over years upon years
 
Bliss said:
Well I suppose the question then is; is the fact that it would eat at one's conscious really any different than those who actually go through with it? Shouldn't it be an issue of having ABSOLUTELY NO DESIRE TO BE WITH SOMEONE ELSE/BE ATTRACTED SEXUALLY, as opposed to not doing it because one could not live with their own guilty conscious?
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As much as I would love the imagination of "Never have to have the desire to feel attracted to someone else"- I think it's not realistic. At least, when we talk about years, decades..
Everyone in a relationship will have to think at one day, which way he/she wants to go..to separate, because it could happen or really happens, or to arrange with the situation and to find solutions
 
christine dubois said:
As much as I would love the imagination of "Never have to have the desire to feel attracted to someone else"- I think it's not realistic. At least, when we talk about years, decades..

Everyone in a relationship will have to think at one day, which way he/she wants to go..to separate, because it could happen or really happens, or to arrange with the situation and to find solutions
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Yes, that is true. So people essentially cheat in their minds.

And to clarify - I'm not comparing the action of cheating literally, I'm comparing the moral motivation not to cheat. Is it because they have ONLY eyes for their spouse, or decline to cheat with someone because of the weight it would bear on their conscious.
 
Bliss said:
Yes, that is true. So people essentially cheat in their minds.

And to clarify - I'm not comparing the action of cheating literally, I'm comparing the moral motivation not to cheat. Is it because they have ONLY eyes for their spouse, or decline to cheat with someone because of the weight it would bear on their conscious.
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I think it's all rotative..there is a time, where you have no eye for some one else, there is also a time, when you feel lifeless and look for adventure or understanding (when some decline to cheat because of their conscious) and there is a time, when you would like to, but are afraid of the consequences.

I am not sure, whether you mean that to think or to want someone else and to decline or not allowing yourself that feeling, is really more honest?
 
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