Cheaters

Whether I cheated or not was a source of contention for me and the ex. We got in a HUGE fight, I said we we done, hooked up with someone else. we made up three days later. I did not mention my fling, he went through me phone and found out. We broke up 6 months later.
 
stiletoes said:
Whether I cheated or not was a source of contention for me and the ex. We got in a HUGE fight, I said we we done, hooked up with someone else. we made up three days later. I did not mention my fling, he went through me phone and found out. We broke up 6 months later.
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Honestly, what were you expecting?

lol

Don't tell me you didn't see the break up coming?
 
archangel said:
Honestly, what were you expecting?

lol

Don't tell me you didn't see the break up coming?
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Honestly no because we talked in great length,spent even more time together, I am and was remorseful and he said he forgave me. Strangley I have known couples who make it through this sort of thing and come out stronger, sadly we did not.
 
Chigirl said:
Have you ever caught someone cheating? How did you find out?

My ex in Germany cheated on me, to be honest he probably did a few times but I was a bit naive back then... anyhoo I caught him because the "other woman" left her earrings on his nightstand and numbnutz didn't put them away before I came over... yeah that wasn't a fun evening or conversation to have. I just asked him where they came from since they were obviously not mine, he was never a good liar when confronted aggressively, tried to talk himself out of it but he knew I wasn't buying it. We broke up shortly thereafter. Other than that I don't think I was cheated on but who knows.....
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she showed up to the house while i was there, he went outside, and his friend was there and said 'well this is awkward' when i questioned the friend, thats when i found out smh
 
I've never really caught anyone cheating on me. Seen texts an ex send another chick calling her baby and whatever, saying he loved her. Only reason I seen it, is because he was driving, and asked me to reply to a text from his grandmother. While I was sending that text, a message from her popped up.
The chickie was a huge flirt, that went after basically any black guy, so I hated the fact him and her were friends. I also tell my friends I love them and I call my friend's bf baby/honey all the time (inside joke as him being my "second" boyfriend). This left me unable to really say anything, because he could've said I do the same thing.


I've also known cheaters, back when I was in high school. I knew a couple that was engaged, and the guy would keep hitting on me, asking me to spend the night and whatever. I got tired of that, and since I considered the gf to be a friend of mine, I told her what was being said. She basically accused me of being a whore, trying to steal her fiance... when I was only trying to give her a heads up.
Since then, it's kinda been my "policy"... if I know someones attempting to cheat on a friend with me, to just keep my mouth shut and not let anything happen. If the friend asks ME what happened, I'd explain, but not going to volunteer that information anymore and end up being labeled the bad person.
 
Yes, story too long but yes, engaged and living together - his ass went out that very night.
6 mo later he knocked on my door to tell me that he cheated on the girl he cheated on me with. It was her sister on top of that.
HA! And the thought I would take him back!!! Yeah, sure......
 
4north1side2 said:
Lol interesting.... my dad took my sister and i along with him on dates on the woman he was having an affair with. Awwwkward.
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4north1side2 said:
Years later my Mother came to my house out of the blue smitten in guilt and told me my Dad isn't my Dad... Clearly they were made for each other.
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damn. I heard of situations like that before. there was this dude whose dad was of another family...better stated his mom was creeping. she also had a daughter from another dude. they had like 4 kids 2 of which wasnt from the dad he grew up with. that was some deep shit in the hood. my mom and her friends would sit around and gossip about the shit thinking i didnt hear about it in the next room. hell, no home video games back then so kids snooped on the adults
 
Chigirl said:
Have you ever caught someone cheating?
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Yes, a few partners where caught cheating. I am very stealthy and sleuthy so it wasn't that difficult. One of the many reasons I enjoy being single - don't have to worry about a weak ass man making colossal mistakes that directly affect me.
 
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