Cheaters

[FG]

I disagree with this.....just saying. There was a time in my young Marine life where I only dated married women. Horrible thing to do? I guess. Wrong? Of course. But not to the level of what people subscribe too. On the hierarchy of fucked up things I did as a young stupid kid, cheating never has risen to the level of condemning myself to hell. I stopped not because I had an epiphany of wrong doing, LOL...but because I actually convinced myself that one married woman I was messing with was going to leave my dumb ass and run away with me.

ha!

boy did that suck.

Oh, I totally get that view point. I dont dispute peoples right to think that. Im am no-one to pass judgement.

I just happen to not want to be anywhere near someone that is in a relationship.

I was cheated on hardcore by an fiancee, and although my fury was aimed at my fiancee and not the woman - she still carry blame, absolutely. If it hadnt been her, it probably would have been someone else.

Its just that I believe if I dont want it done to me, I will not do it to someone else. As the other partner in crime in a cheating drama, you are enabling cheating and partake of the disintegration of a relationship and I just dont see that as much less horrible that the cheater. That is why I put it in the same boat. People dont have to agree. Thats just my thought.

We all done stuff we regret and we all (hopefully) learn from it.
Im no goody 2 shoes, Ive done stupid shit. I just wont repeat the same dumb stuff twice.... I hope

 

[The Dark King]

Oh, I totally get that view point. I dont dispute peoples right to think that. Im am no-one to pass judgement.

Its just that I believe if I dont want it done to me, I will not do it to someone else. As the other partner in crime in a cheating drama, you are enabling cheating and partake of the disintegration of a relationship and I just dont see that as much less horrible that the cheater. That is why I put it in the same boat. People dont have to agree. Thats just my thought.

We all done stuff we regret and we all (hopefully) learn from it.
Im no goody 2 shoes, Ive done stupid shit. I just wont repeat the same dumb stuff twice.... I hope

Well I am one to pass judgement. Shit we all do it maybe not openly but we all past judgement.

I always hated the excuse that had it not be me it would have been another but why be that dude or that girl.
I'll use the bank robbery analogy again. Even if the guy with the gun could have found another get away driver I was the one who chose to be behind the wheel so then I should be punished accordingly.

 

[FG]

Well I am one to pass judgement. Shit we all do it maybe not openly but we all past judgement.

I always hated the excuse that had it not be me it would have been another but why be that dude or that girl.
I'll use the bank robbery analogy again. Even if the guy with the gun could have found another get away driver I was the one who chose to be behind the wheel so then I should be punished accordingly.

I agree with you Andrae. But I can see that people think that technically they dont see it as cheating if they are "the other person".

I think we can divide it into two discussions - Im sure that the people that said its not cheating, still agree its wrong - I hope.

I do agree w you 100% that we all should take responsibility for our actions and look at repercussions that sometimes are like rings on water and affect more people than we realize.

Im HUGE on integrity, I think I mentioned that word about 100 times in this forum. I can intellectually understand people not agreeing on that - I just can not relate or emotionally understand it.
Do I make any sense?

 

[Ymra]

Good point I just wish people could be a little more mindful of one another. Cheating isn't cool anyway you slice it. It's cruel to act like since you're not the one committed in a relationship it's ok to participate in ruining another's. And the idea that we don't have a responsibility to be decent to one another is sickening. It's easy to turn down sex just walk away, no one holds a gun to your head especially when facilitating someone elses pain.
I just don't get the selfishness

I"m a war fighter... I have been a warfighter my entire adult life. Cheating simply has never risen to the level of "crime against humanity" but on the other hand I am an idealist.

..Meh,

Here is always been my thoughts "If a women cheats on me, she is simply not the woman for me"

 

[The Dark King]

I agree with you Andrae. But I can see that people think that technically they dont see it as cheating if they are "the other person".

I think we can divide it into two discussions - Im sure that the people that said its not cheating, still agree its wrong - I hope.

I do agree w you 100% that we all should take responsibility for our actions and look at repercussions that sometimes are like rings on water and affect more people than we realize.

Im HUGE on integrity, I think I mentioned that word about 100 times in this forum. I can intellectually understand people not agreeing on that - I just can not relate or emotionally understand it.
Do I make any sense?

You make perfect sense kid. But I guess we all have to follow our moral compasses.

 

[The Dark King]

I"m a war fighter... I have been a warfighter my entire adult life. Cheating simply has never risen to the level of "crime against humanity" but on the other hand I am an idealist.

..Meh,

Here is always been my thoughts "If a women cheats on me, she is simply not the woman for me"

Well I think you can say that about almost anything but cheating isn't only dishonest but it's a disregard for someone elses health. Playing rushing roulette with someone elses health because your horny isn't cool.
Btw thanks for your sacrafice on behalf our freedoms fam

 

[wtarshi]

some schooling on cheating by Barney Stinson...

“Open your brain tank, bro, ’cause here comes some premium 91-octane knowledge. There’s three rules of cheating:

1. It’s not cheating if you’re not the one who’s married.

2. It’s not cheating if her name has two adjacent vowels.

3. And it's not cheating if she’s from a different area code. You’re fine on all three counts.”

 

[Bug]

I disagree with this. A woman can find a willing suitor of all she truly wants is sex. Most women (and not saying this is you) most women say they want sex and and can't get ti, what they really mean is they can't have sex with the men they want...

...which is not the same as saying they can't get sex.

What do you disagree with? because you pretty much duplicated my answer, you need to re-read my post, as I said " no it's not hard to find sex no strings"

 

[Bug]

some schooling on cheating by Barney Stinson...

“Open your brain tank, bro, ’cause here comes some premium 91-octane knowledge. There’s three rules of cheating:

1. It’s not cheating if you’re not the one who’s married.

2. It’s not cheating if her name has two adjacent vowels.

3. And it's not cheating if she’s from a different area code. You’re fine on all three counts.”

Lol

By the way, I love the new pic, very hair shakingly Loreal "because you're worth it"

 

[Arwen]

Espy has it right sweetheart. If I was going to insult you I would leave little room for confusion but since you brought it up by saying you knew a man was married and messed with him anyway shows that can you be a self serving person who adjusts her morals to suite her wants. So it's not far fetched to believe that you could or would do that to a friend. If you really wanted the guy, like you wanted the other married one, and felt justified why wouldn't you?
I'm not being accusatory just following your line of thinking.

WOW. Just WOW. You just won the "best assuming-without-knowing-shit man" award 2010. Congratulations.

 

[The Dark King]

WOW. Just WOW. You just won the "best assuming-without-knowing-shit man" award 2010. Congratulations.

Don't think so Thick. You're the one who said you were aware of the fact that the man was involved but went along with it anyway. You're the one who said she couldn't let go for whatever reason. And I'm sure as I'm sitting here Ms. It's hard for me to find a good man, had you been the one who was being cheating on you would have hurt and played the victim. So its ok to participate in cheating but its messed if it happened to you right? Sounds like an adjustment of morality to me.

 

[wtarshi]

Lol

By the way, I love the new pic, very hair shakingly Loreal "because you're worth it"

lmao...!!! why thank you francie...!!!

 

[Anten7]

WOW. Just WOW. You just won the "best assuming-without-knowing-shit man" award 2010. Congratulations.

d'oh!

 

[Arwen]

Don't think so Thick. You're the one who said you were aware of the fact that the man was involved but went along with it anyway. You're the one who said she couldn't let go for whatever reason. And I'm sure as I'm sitting here Ms. It's hard for me to find a good man, had you been the one who was being cheating on you would have hurt and played the victim. So its ok to participate in cheating but its messed if it happened to you right? Sounds like an adjustment of morality to me.

You don't know shit of how i felt and of my reasons and obviosly i didn't share (thank God!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) everything with you guys so you should just stop talking about me.
Go ahead and go judge somebody else since you have fun doing it.

 

[The Dark King]

You don't know shit of how i felt and of my reasons and obviosly i didn't share (thank God!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!) everything with you guys so you should just stop talking about me.
Go ahead and go judge somebody else since you have fun doing it.

Second paragraph of your first post. You said all it would take was for him to give you that look and you'd mess with him again. Kind of implies you didn't think what you were doing was wrong.

 

[Arwen]

Second paragraph of your first post. You said all it would take was for him to give you that look and you'd mess with him again. Kind of implies you didn't think what you were doing was wrong.

I assume you don't know that what you say doesn't always reflect the reality. I think you misunderstood many things I said but I'm not going to waste my time trying to explain them to you. The fact that you take things too letterally and you don't wait 30 seconds to judge a person is enough for me. Have a great day.

 

[The Dark King]

I assume you don't know that what you say doesn't always reflect the reality. I think you misunderstood many things I said but I'm not going to waste my time trying to explain them to you. The fact that you take things too letterally and you don't wait 30 seconds to judge a person is enough for me. Have a great day.

You too sweetheart

 

[Arwen]

You too sweetheart

fixed.

 

[The Dark King]

fixed.

Damn thick don't be so touchy lol

 

[JordanC]

Stop now before it spirals downward.