Cheaters

Tamstrong said:
I thinks that's a great idea for a fund-raiser! It beats having a bake sale! I'm in if you're looking for volunteers! :smt006
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I'll voluteer too. I have a pole! :pIts never been used and needs to be broke in. Plus it's a great reason to go shoe shopping as well.
 
andrae09 said:
I just had a conversation with a friend who's messing with a married chick who's been with her husband for 10 years and they have a son. I also know this woman and would never think she's like that but I guess appearances are decieving. So have any of you cheated with or on someone?
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A few times, when I was young I felt bad and it fucked with me in the head but as I matured I learned it's not that serious. It's just fucking sex.
 
andrae09 said:
I just had a conversation with a friend who's messing with a married chick who's been with her husband for 10 years and they have a son. I also know this woman and would never think she's like that but I guess appearances are decieving. So have any of you cheated with or on someone?
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No, I have never cheated on anyone but I admit that I stole someone elses man.
First I felt VERY VERY BAD about the situation but she is a bitch and he was/is too good for her. Now he is all mine and Im not gonna give him back :smt003
 
Unique4ever said:
No, I have never cheated on anyone but I admit that I stole someone elses man.
First I felt VERY VERY BAD about the situation but she is a bitch and he was/is too good for her. Now he is all mine and Im not gonna give him back :smt003
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Damn girl that's gangsta lol.
As long as there isn't any deceit going on that's fine in my book.
 
andrae09 said:
Damn girl that's gangsta lol.
As long as there isn't any deceit going on that's fine in my book.
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No he told her it was over after he met me
(and he wanted to leave anyway I think).
So no secrets behind someones back or anything like that.
She wanted to kill me/us anyway LOL
 
andrae09 said:
Hope she doesn't live anywhere near you kid. Nothing like a woman scorned lol.
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LOL.Thanks for worrying but we have the Atlantic Ocean between us ;)
Unfortunately the same goes for my man and me :smt022

Hey, good luck for you and that lady (notice NOT "chick" LOL) that seems to be a good catch. Enjoy trimming the tree!
 
Unique4ever said:
LOL.Thanks for worrying but we have the Atlantic Ocean between us ;)
Unfortunately the same goes for my man and me :smt022

Hey, good luck for you and that lady (notice NOT "chick" LOL) that seems to be a good catch. Enjoy trimming the tree!
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She's definitely someone I thought i'd never meet but its still early so for now I'm just enjoying the great sex and fun times lol.
 
Bump^^^


So today another friend (who is engaged btw) told me about how she had a wild night with an old fling and how amazing it was. Unfortunately for her mother found out about it and is now threatening not to pay for the wedding. She's devistated and upset(naturally playing the victim) because her parents demand she tell her fiance.

I say this with sincerity but are the people who cheat crazy or just plain stupid. The unboundless selfishness amazes the hell out of me.
Why do it?
 
MrFantastic said:
Bump^^^


So today another friend (who is engaged btw) told me about how she had a wild night with an old fling and how amazing it was. Unfortunately for her mother found out about it and is now threatening not to pay for the wedding. She's devistated and upset(naturally playing the victim) because her parents demand she tell her fiance.

I say this with sincerity but are the people who cheat crazy or just plain stupid. The unboundless selfishness amazes the hell out of me.
Why do it?
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Everyone has their own reasons...I think people mostly do it because they can and they think they won't get caught. I read an article once that said something like 70% of people cheat on their partners. Even some advice columnists advocate not telling your partner if you cheat because if everything else is going well, why mess that up? It's a really odd phenomenon. I think people have been cheating for years, it's just more talked about now.

Personally, I think if monogamy isn't for you, it's up to you to discuss that with your partner. Some people aren't made for it.. maybe an open relationship is a better alternative...maybe not being together is a better alternative...who knows.

However, I don't think it's fair for someone else to push their morality onto another person....BUT it is her mother's money, so she can do with it what she wants.
 
Dreaming_Blue said:
Everyone has their own reasons...I think people mostly do it because they can and they think they won't get caught. I read an article once that said something like 70% of people cheat on their partners. Even some advice columnists advocate not telling your partner if you cheat because if everything else is going well, why mess that up? It's a really odd phenomenon. I think people have been cheating for years, it's just more talked about now.

Personally, I think if monogamy isn't for you, it's up to you to discuss that with your partner. Some people aren't made for it.. maybe an open relationship is a better alternative...maybe not being together is a better alternative...who knows.

However, I don't think it's fair for someone else to push their morality onto another person....BUT it is her mother's money, so she can do with it what she wants.
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I'm actually really happy that her mom did that. She was out of control. Her fiance is a really good guy who worships her and she knows no other guy is gonna treat her like that but she loves getting dick from other guys.
Is this just a US thing or does everyone do this I wonder.
 
IMO, as I've stated before, there is NEVER a good reason to cheat. If you're not through fucking around, DO NOT GET MARRIED!!

If you marry someone, you are beholden to them. That means you have no business cheating. Cheating is 100% selfishness.
 
Tamstrong said:
IMO, as I've stated before, there is NEVER a good reason to cheat. If you're not through fucking around, DO NOT GET MARRIED!!

If you marry someone, you are beholden to them. That means you have no business cheating. Cheating is 100% selfishness.
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I love the way you think lady
 
MrFantastic said:
Bump^^^


So today another friend (who is engaged btw) told me about how she had a wild night with an old fling and how amazing it was. Unfortunately for her mother found out about it and is now threatening not to pay for the wedding. She's devistated and upset(naturally playing the victim) because her parents demand she tell her fiance.

I say this with sincerity but are the people who cheat crazy or just plain stupid. The unboundless selfishness amazes the hell out of me.
Why do it?
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I will take a blind swing:

A wealthy white girl and her all american dream boy, promised of paid marriage from parents, future prospects of countless white grand children and big white family reunions were all destroyed by a young black fling??

lol.

Same shit occured in my neck of woods, it seems white girls are fragile in sexual terms, that if you have her alone, all you really have to do is talk the talk and she will be yours whether shes engaged or married. She might regret it after (actually she will), she might even start hating you for fuckin her (even though she was screaming your name all night long) but that doesnt change the fact that shes a whore. eh?
 
BlackMasterJay said:
I will take a blind swing:

A wealthy white girl and her all american dream boy, promised of paid marriage from parents, future prospects of countless white grand children and big white family reunions were all destroyed by a young black fling??

lol.

Same shit occured in my neck of woods, it seems white girls are fragile in sexual terms, that if you have her alone, all you really have to do is talk the talk and she will be yours whether shes engaged or married. She might regret it after (actually she will), she might even start hating you for fuckin her (even though she was screaming your name all night long) but that doesnt change the fact that shes a whore. eh?
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Ding ding ding. Give this man a prize.

They're not wealthy but upper middle class suburbanites and guy she's marrying works with her dad and the dude she cheated with was the "cool" biracial kid (to her irish and italian parents a nigga none the less) who the other white girls loved when she was growing up.
This dude treats her like shit and embarasses her all the time by standing her up and he has a girl but she was dying to get that dick and has risked everything. Smdh.
 
MrFantastic said:
I'm actually really happy that her mom did that. She was out of control. Her fiance is a really good guy who worships her and she knows no other guy is gonna treat her like that but she loves getting dick from other guys.
Is this just a US thing or does everyone do this I wonder.
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Why would being in the US matter?

No one cheats or does anything bad in any other country? Give me a break. You're grasping here.
 
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