Do you prefer your man to be tall or short?

K said:
UK is actually pretty much on with this.

And you have to remember too there is a big difference between what a woman will mess with and what she wants to be with.
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True, if you're looking for someone to fuck, looks will be a lot more important. If you're putting out boyfriend potential, other things will be a bigger factor. Looks will be a smaller part of the equation.
 
Since1980 said:
In all honesty how long do those marriages last, though? And how does that affect the man going forward? Personally, if I'm dating someone then the physical attraction has to be mutual. It wouldn't matter how beautiful I think she is if she doesn't feel the same way about me. That sounds like a recipe for disaster.
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I was married 17 years. I have friends who were married well over 25.
 
GFunk said:
In previous generations yeah. A lot less for my generation. If you don't look good, your status may have to cover for that. Your social life may have to cover for that.
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Right and it will be interesting to see how/if that changes as your generation moves into the stage/age of more serious relationships. Age range has extended upward.
 
goodlove8 said:
Yeah to a point but women respond to mindgasms moreso than anything else.

Not saying you are wrong though
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There's that old saying about women falling in love through their ears (what they hear) and men falling in love through their eyes (what they see)
 
Since1980 said:
Really? Pretty interesting. Well, to each his own I guess. There's no way in hell I could do that but different strokes for different folks.
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Many of us got married young and looked past the physical attraction thing. But then I'm seeing many who had a strong physical attraction who got married and split up (maybe they didn't have much other than the physical attraction?) who are then going for other than physical attraction as they get older. Me, I wasn't willing to only get one or the other (BTDT)....I wanted/needed it all.
 
K said:
There's that old saying about women falling in love through their ears (what they hear) and men falling in love through their eyes (what they see)
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No it's not. I didn't mention men.

Money and looks open the door but if you can't talk the talk..
 
K said:
Many of us got married young and looked past the physical attraction thing. But then I'm seeing many who had a strong physical attraction who got married and split up (maybe they didn't have much other than the physical attraction?) who are then going for other than physical attraction as they get older. Me, I wasn't willing to only get one or the other (BTDT)....I wanted/needed it all.
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Oh, I was referring to being with someone who didn't find me physically attractive. There has to be an emotional connection as well and that's important and everything but I need to be with someone who physically wants me. Otherwise, we can just be friends and she can be with someone else she's more attracted to.
 
goodlove8 said:
No it's not. I didn't mention men.

Money and looks open the door but if you can't talk the talk..
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Theb the money can keep them around a little longer. There are tons of people in relationships that don't want to be in for the sake of having someone, to show other people they have someone, not wanting to be alone, etc. Money is an incentive to stay in a shitty relationship. And when you can fuck around behind that person's back and still stay in that money lifestyle, they win.
 
GFunk said:
Theb the money can keep them around a little longer. There are tons of people in relationships that don't want to be in for the sake of having someone, to show other people they have someone, not wanting to be alone, etc. Money is an incentive to stay in a shitty relationship. And when you can fuck around behind that person's back and still stay in that money lifestyle, they win.
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Different people are motivated by different things. For some, the money will keep them around....they may not fuck around either. For some, the financial security, image, etc is where it's at for them.
 
Since1980 said:
Oh, I was referring to being with someone who didn't find me physically attractive. There has to be an emotional connection as well and that's important and everything but I need to be with someone who physically wants me. Otherwise, we can just be friends and she can be with someone else she's more attracted to.
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Agreed. Physical attraction is important to me and I need my man to be attracted to me in that way as well.

Sometimes people end up physically attracted to people they wouldn't typically too.
 
Lol this thread.. I'm 5'1". The tallest guy I've ever dated was 6'1". I don't enjoy feeling like your daughter when we go out together hahaha so I'm all for a 5'7"-5'9"ish hottie.
 
GFunk said:
Theb the money can keep them around a little longer. There are tons of people in relationships that don't want to be in for the sake of having someone, to show other people they have someone, not wanting to be alone, etc. Money is an incentive to stay in a shitty relationship. And when you can fuck around behind that person's back and still stay in that money lifestyle, they win.
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You hit it on the head. Men need to be very selective
 
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