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The Dark Knight said:
Life is too interesting for words sometimes. Its never simple. I met some girl at Starbucks today, I usually take time to write in there on my days off. She forgot her laptop charger and asked to borrow mine and we started conversing. We ended up talking for two hours which was nice. Its cool knowing you can connect with other human beings so easily, it didn't hurt that she was really cute. Even though nothing happened I felt a little guilty afterwards. Its like life always throws things out there to keep things interesting. I debate on whether or not I should tell my girl about it? Should I avoid that Starbucks because I see the potential for future temptation?
Interesting indeed.
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Seems that when a person's taken or whatever, others come out of the woodwork :p

Personally, I wouldn't be concerned if you were talking to some girl at a starbucks and nothing happened. You could just tell her that you were talking to someone at starbucks, but it wasn't a big deal (if it wasn't :p). This is coming from a girl with mainly guy friends, and would expect to be trusted around a bunch of guys and not being suspicious of the girls a bf hangs with.

If something was to happen... could you say no? If you can, I don't think she'd need to know. If you couldn't say no, maybe a different starbucks if the other girl seems like a regular there. At least starbucks is everywhere, so the drinks are standard :)

That's just me though, she might want to know anyways.. or she could feel that she's somehow not enough for you, all depends. :smt102.
 
The Dark Knight said:
Life is too interesting for words sometimes. Its never simple. I met some girl at Starbucks today, I usually take time to write in there on my days off. She forgot her laptop charger and asked to borrow mine and we started conversing. We ended up talking for two hours which was nice. Its cool knowing you can connect with other human beings so easily, it didn't hurt that she was really cute. Even though nothing happened I felt a little guilty afterwards. Its like life always throws things out there to keep things interesting. I debate on whether or not I should tell my girl about it? Should I avoid that Starbucks because I see the potential for future temptation?
Interesting indeed.
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Would you want to know?

If she met a guy and vibed for 2 hours. And she thought he was really cute.
 
nicole89marsh said:
Seems that when a person's taken or whatever, others come out of the woodwork :p

Personally, I wouldn't be concerned if you were talking to some girl at a starbucks and nothing happened. You could just tell her that you were talking to someone at starbucks, but it wasn't a big deal (if it wasn't :p). This is coming from a girl with mainly guy friends, and would expect to be trusted around a bunch of guys and not being suspicious of the girls a bf hangs with.

If something was to happen... could you say no? If you can, I don't think she'd need to know. If you couldn't say no, maybe a different starbucks if the other girl seems like a regular there. At least starbucks is everywhere, so the drinks are standard :)

That's just me though, she might want to know anyways.. or she could feel that she's somehow not enough for you, all depends. :smt102.
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Well made point. Under other circumstances I would pursue things with that girl but I'm into my girl. Just really liked the attention and for me connecting with people is usually difficult so its really refreshing when it happens. How often do you get to talk to total strangers for such a long time. Things like that intrigue me. Funny how I've been going there for almost a year and not until I commit to someone does shit like that happen lol.
But to be on the safe side I think it would be smarter to write at the library from now on. I don't like to tempt fate lol.
 
Bliss said:
Would you want to know?

If she met a guy and vibed for 2 hours. And she thought he was really cute.
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Not really. She's a really pretty girl and I don't doubt she gets attention daily so unless something actually happens I don't need to hear about it. Policing her would only annoy her and drive me crazy. Lose lose.
 
The Dark Knight said:
Not really. She's a really pretty girl and I don't doubt she gets attention daily so unless something actually happens I don't need to hear about it. Policing her would only annoy her and drive me crazy. Lose lose.
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Then you kind of answered your own question, maybe.
 
The Dark Knight said:
Well made point. Under other circumstances I would pursue things with that girl but I'm into my girl. Just really liked the attention and for me connecting with people is usually difficult so its really refreshing when it happens. How often do you get to talk to total strangers for such a long time. Things like that intrigue me. Funny how I've been going there for almost a year and not until I commit to someone does shit like that happen lol.But to be on the safe side I think it would be smarter to write at the library from now on. I don't like to tempt fate lol.
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I think I know why that is TDK.
Since you are with your girl, you seem to be at peace and more open minded. People notice when you are positive towards life and others and it attracts them.
If I was your girl I dont think I would want to know since nothing really happened. Just make sure things dont get too deep, so Nicole suggestions for another Starbucks was a good one imo. No need to risk what you have since it is obviously something special.
 
Unique4ever said:
I think I know why that is TDK.
Since you are with your girl, you seem to be at peace and more open minded. People notice when you are positive towards life and others and it attracts them.
If I was your girl I dont think I would want to know since nothing really happened. Just make sure things dont get too deep, so Nicole suggestions for another Starbucks was a good one imo. No need to risk what you have since it is obviously something special.
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Amen sister
 
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Black DeNiro said:
Yeah, i'll be prepared. Be prepared not to answer the door.lol
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christine dubois said:
I was thinking it's my neighbour...Now I have 6 people here, coming extra more than an hour to drive, they have wine and food..I like them, they are funny..but, hell, I was in my pyjama already...shit:confused:
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Well if they traveled that far and had food and wine with them, i'll let it slide. But just to teach them its not cool to just show up like that. I'd make them wait outside while I got dressed.
 
Black DeNiro said:
Hell yeah. I hate that too. I just wont answer the door.
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Bliss said:
Neither do I. Especially if I don't know you. Forget it, leave me a note, I'll get back to you.
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I don't answer my door either.


christine dubois said:
I was thinking it's my neighbour...Now I have 6 people here, coming extra more than an hour to drive, they have wine and food..I like them, they are funny..but, hell, I was in my pyjama already...shit:confused:
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I know how you feel. Of course if I'm at home and not expecting anyone, I'm typically not dressed for company...either pj's or when I have the house to myself, either a tank top & undies or nothing at all. Just the thought of having to get dressed for surprise company irritates me.
 
Tamstrong said:
I don't answer my door either.




I know how you feel. Of course if I'm at home and not expecting anyone, I'm typically not dressed for company...either pj's or when I have the house to myself, either a tank top & undies or nothing at all. Just the thought of having to get dressed for surprise company irritates me.
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:smt003
 
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