meowkittenmeow
Well-Known Member
That is the interesting thing about gay black men. Bi and queer black men tend to tell a very different story. Most of their ridicule comes from black women (because a black woman can eat pussy every thursday and still consider herself straight). So, there is a good number of angst towards black women in those communities. Black women realize that, and push gay black men to the forefront. Black women don't want to be held accountable, so they will choose gay black men who they see as sisters. They are also quick to silence lesbian and bi black women. Those women are quick to call out black women on their bullshit as well. Which is why lesbian rappers like young ma get called misogynists. I find it all rather amusing. They have their matriarchal power, and are very methodical about it. You mentioned in a previous thread about how feminism doesn't help poor women especially poor black women. I agree, but the black women in power still need feminism in order to control the narrative and maintain power. It's an interesting Dynamic.Because in our community we cower in front our women for the most part. A lot of dudes come from single parent homes where their mothers and grandmothers raised them so they are very comfortable with and expect to be directed by women. That's why you see so many black men cow tow to black women you rarely see black men criticize or say anything negative about black women in public, they're always queens to be exalted even though they are vastly responsible for nearly all the child neglect and abuse that goes on in the black community but that's a different conversation. Couple that with lack of fathers in the home, black men do not know how to have solidarity and brotherhood amongst each other. Every other group of men have a boy's club (for better or worst) that looks out for the members of that brotherhood we on the other hand have the special Negro crabs in the barrel mindset where there can only be one who makes it and its gonna be. Black women at least do the sisterhood queens help queens thing. So that's why you'll see a steaming pile of shit like Wrinkle of Time produced by a black woman written by a black woman and have black women as the leads without a single black man in sight including the leads father brother and love interest. It was considered a love letter to little black girls. Even black panther that was written and directed by a black man had black male leads was for "black people". We supposedly get Moonlight which was a movie about LGBT people and all kinds of trauma. Our decision makers are usually gay black men who worship black women and have unresolved issues with black men who bullied them or were absent when they were growing up. I could go on and on but its clear why black aren't getting true leads