what do white women love about black men?

BigBrotherWise said:
I'm glad you did. :) Just try and enjoy your time here. We're all fun-loving people with a need to entertain one another and vent.
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Thank you, I will do that but at the same time, I do have a tendency to dwell beneath the surface of things when vents come my way. There was a reason for the outrage...all I know is that it's not good...not good at all. However, I will dwell on those who did appreciate my post. Just knowing that you and many others did appreciate my expression, makes me feel good to be here on my first day.

thanks to all of you.:smt039
 
OpenHeart said:
Thank you, I will do that but at the same time, I do have a tendency to dwell beneath the surface of things when vents come my way. There was a reason for the outrage...all I know is that it's not good...not good at all. However, I will dwell on those who did appreciate my post. Just knowing that you and many others did appreciate my expression, makes me feel good to be here on my first day.

thanks to all of you.:smt039
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No problem. You just got off the wrong foot. Don't worry, as you stick around here longer, people will grow attached to you.
 
Dreaming_Blue said:
I didn't blow up. If I had, you'd have known it. I'm a little annoyed, but that's about it.

I also didn't take it personally- I just found it disingenuous- like you were trying too hard.... and then you say let's be friends after a thinly veiled accusation of my character. So which is it? You're all energized now because some guys here appreciate your lame attempt to be Elizabeth Barrett Browning?

OK, so be it. I'm done. Commence with the pandering. Some of these guys seem to get off on it.
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Now wait a minute, I'm trying to end this, but you're not going to step to me like that. Know that I was not trying too hard. I have a vocabulary and words come to me very easily when expressing my love and adoration. Moreover, what you read was from my heart concerning the black men I know in general. If you do not find the black men you know to be that way, then fine...get over it. Moreover, I have not attacked your character anywhere on this thread. Show me...cut and paste it. I want to see it. I promise you I will apologize to you if I have, but I will NOT apologize for the way I feel about the black men that I know in general...never. If anything, you have been attacking my character so let's stop it right now...okay?:smt102
 
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Max Mosley said:
I'll speak for myself here.

Theres much worse things for me to be upset about on this forum than a new female member that expresses herself poetically. Especially in a thread of this nature.
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OK.

OpenHeart said:
Now wait a minute, I'm trying to end this, but you're not going to step to me like that. Know that I was not trying too hard. I have a vocabulary and words come to me very easily when express my love and adoration. Most of all, what you read was from my heart concerning the black men I know in general. If you do not find the black men you know to be that way, then fine...get over it. Moreover, I have not attacked your character anywhere on this thread. Show me...cut and paste it. I want to see it. I promise you I will apologize to you if I have, but I will NOT apologize for the way I feel about the black men that I know in general...never. If anything, you have been attacking my character so let's stop it right now...okay?:smt102
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*sigh*

OK. Done then. My apologies. Enjoy the forum.
 
karmacoma. said:
I think it's a nice post. What's wrong with it?
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I think it would be a nice addition to my "Black Man Appreciation" thread.

karmacoma. said:
LOL you brothers are so shellshocked day in day out that when somebody says something nice they are suspect.
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Yeah, folks shouldn't be jumping to conclusions...so far she's not putting off any bad vibes imo.


Max Mosley said:
I thought what Open Heart wrote was thoughtful.
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Me too.

Tarshi said:
let's just hug it out, move back to our respective corners & build a bridge people
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Tarshi said:
i for one have no problem at all with what openheart had to say. why are we jumping on people so quickly these days...???
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I agree. Just based on the few posts she's made, I haven't seen any reason to assume she's coming from a creepy place. Like I said above, to me she's not putting off any bad vibes.
 
OK, OH, here's the deal...

This site, being what it is, is prone to tolls. Like, Constantly. It gets exhausting. Sometimes it's hard to tell someone's intentions, and when we let things slide it becomes Troll Hell.

All of us work hard to make this place a positive environment on the web. I didn't do my part today, and I'm apologize. Most people will tell you that I am generally NOT like this. Just the other day MrFantastic told me that I'm always the peacekeeper. Lol

Anyway, I hope you can forgive my attitude today, and I really hope you like it here- my momentary bitch fit notwithstanding.
 
Dreaming_Blue said:
OK, OH, here's the deal...

This site, being what it is, is prone to tolls. Like, Constantly. It gets exhausting. Sometimes it's hard to tell someone's intentions, and when we let things slide it becomes Troll Hell.

All of us work hard to make this place a positive environment on the web. I didn't do my part today, and I'm apologize. Most people will tell you that I am generally NOT like this. Just the other day MrFantastic told me that I'm always the peacekeeper. Lol

Anyway, I hope you can forgive my attitude today, and I really hope you like it here- my momentary bitch fit notwithstanding.
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Yes, I gladly forgive. Reassured, I am not a troll. Those are some mean devilish boogers. I have a truce gift for you below. Click and Enjoy The Hot Chocolates!:smt026
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w1-1VmRnw2E
 
Tarshi said:
i for one have no problem at all with what openheart had to say. why are we jumping on people so quickly these days...???
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Exactly.

I say soak it up black men, take what you can get. You not hearing such devotion from anybody else least of all your own women.
 
Dreaming_Blue said:
I didn't blow up. If I had, you'd have known it. I'm a little annoyed, but that's about it.

I also didn't take it personally- I just found it disingenuous- like you were trying too hard.... and then you say let's be friends after a thinly veiled accusation of my character. So which is it? You're all energized now because some guys here appreciate your lame attempt to be Elizabeth Barrett Browning?

OK, so be it. I'm done. Commence with the pandering. Some of these guys seem to get off on it.
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LOL if somebody was writing such poetry about the beauty of WW you'd be all into it.
 
OpenHeart said:
Now wait a minute, I'm trying to end this, but you're not going to step to me like that.
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Hell yeah! Now that's what I like. A poet at heart, but can take it to the streets when she has to. :smt068

Seriously though, nice poem. Welcome to the board. :D
 
karmacoma. said:
Mmm hmm but there's a problem when somebody pumps up brothas. Typical
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My issue isn't that she wrote it its when she wrote it. Besides I'm at a point where the idea of being loved because I'm black doesn't sit well with me like being hated for the same reason. I'm trying to achieve just being a guy.
 
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