Bookworm616
Well-Known Member
She's fishing brotha lol
LOL. No, I actually wasn't. Just making an observation. I would say I was about a notch or 2 above the sweats and t-shirt look, I wasn't paying attention to anything but my phone and somehow got a guy to come up to me a couple of times to strike up a conversation and then go and tell my friend that he should get a group to go to a movie or something so he can talk to me in a group setting.
Other times, I'm dressed a lot nicer and paying more attention to my surroundings and don't get a second look from any guy.
A single female friend asked me what it is I'm doing, and I told her: I wish I knew! I'd share my secret. LOL.
Men don't really gossip we just don't care enough to gossip. Its mostly women who dedicate their time to the lives and habits of strangers for entertainment.
I get you worked with men and I work in a mostly male environment but trust me we usually hold back a little because 1. you're at work and I don't care how comfortable I am with a co worker I'm very aware of sexual harassment
2. No matter how cool we get with you we're still aware that you're women my friend.
This, I absolutely have to co-sign with. Most of my friends are men. Most of my coworker friends are men and whilst they let their guard down with me, somewhat, I know for a fact they aren't talking in front of me, like they would if no female was present. How do I know? Because I get brief glimpses when my two coworker friends forget that I'm there and start talking about raunchy stuff (this happens at lunch out of the office) and then they realize I'm there, and it gets PG-13 again.