what do white women love about black men?

BlackWhiteAlrightLdy said:
Ive only been w/ 1 Black man in my life,but it is not because I wasnt interested, but because I just never really had the opportunity.The Black man I am with has it all over the White men I have past known. I dont know if its because he is originally from Africa,but I was IMMEDIATELY attracted to his personality,how we just 'clicked,' his accent which just makes me melt(!),and most importantly,how he makes me FEEL! He makes me feel beautiful,sexy,special,desirable,cherished,& protected,and he is NOT afraid to show or discuss his true feelings. He is extremely confident(but not in a conceited or cocky way) and that is a huge turn-on! Sexually,sensually,passionately,romantically, he is my dream man! Again, his confidence and fearlessness in this area is unmatched to a white male.You would think 2 people who came from opposite ends of the world would have major differences, but in reality, we have so much in common! And of the differences, these are nothing but EXCITING,WONDERFUL and DIFFERENT! I am of course refering to the extreme difference in his skin color and mine as he is medium black, and I am very fair and blonde. Some people cant handle difference, and want someone just like them, but I appreciate,crave and relish it!I find his dark skin exotic,ultra-sexy,mysterious and MALE! Knowing him has changed my perspective and tastes forever! I read one post here, and I must agree, that its like this: which tends to be more visually appealing, a white corvette,or a black one? (most people say black). I also agree w/ the post that says that more Black men seem to have naturally fit bodies; as if they hit the gym(but may not). Just my 2 cents worth:smt060
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This is something I have heard a lot of white women reference when dealing with black men, the way he makes her feel being one of the standout qualities that foster an intense relationship.
 
GQ, Ive heard this a bit too(ive only started doing informal research on it recently),and I must now wonder if its because this is simply the way Black men ARE, or is it the way they are with WHITE WOMEN? In other words, do they treat Black women the same way? From the gripes I hear from some Black women, they seem to disagree. Id also really love to know, because my BF has eluded to this, do Black men who like white women appreciate blonde white women even more than, say, brunette white women? Sounds like a silly question, I know, but this is the feeling Im starting to get. I have no problem with it, mind you, becuse I wont deny that HIS dark skin/dark hair contrast is hugely appealling to me,and thus, makes him seem even more appealing than even the most Adonis of white men!

ok, I guess Im just a weirdo:smt061
 
BlackWhiteAlrightLdy said:
GQ, Ive heard this a bit too(ive only started doing informal research on it recently),and I must now wonder if its because this is simply the way Black men ARE, or is it the way they are with WHITE WOMEN? In other words, do they treat Black women the same way? From the gripes I hear from some Black women, they seem to disagree. Id also really love to know, because my BF has eluded to this, do Black men who like white women appreciate blonde white women even more than, say, brunette white women? Sounds like a silly question, I know, but this is the feeling Im starting to get. I have no problem with it, mind you, becuse I wont deny that HIS dark skin/dark hair contrast is hugely appealling to me,and thus, makes him seem even more appealing than even the most Adonis of white men!

ok, I guess Im just a weirdo:smt061
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You cant treat bm as a monolithic group.
Men are men, I think it is foolish to say bm treat women better than wm. There are great men and assholes in both groups. Plain and simple. You are doing yourself, and men a great disservice to think otherwise.

Some bm may treat ww better than bm, and if they do - it not something that is a good thing or commendable imo.
I want a man that treat all women w the same respect, regardless of color. If they prefer ww over bw is an entirely issue and not connected to bm treating ww better than bw.

I do love the contrast w bm, but I surely don't date bm because I think they are more attentive and make me feel better about myself, compared to wm.
I just simply find myself more attracted to bm - but in the end, its the chemistry and emotional/physical/mental fit that is the deciding factor.
Its about the individual, not some generic label of a whole group of men.

I'm not even going to comment on your comment about maybe bm that like ww prefer blonde women over brunettes. Whuuuu?
Can you really lump a group of men together (bm) like that? That is the feeling you get based on what? Dating one bm and his preference???

Course not, bm are like any other man, in their preference, it varies, some like blondes, some like brunettes, some like redheads etc.

If you feel better w bm, fine, but don't treat them as a monolithic group.
 
So all these WW divoricing their white hubby and moving to BM, in some cases still married to WM & looking for black dick, it must be the weather or something in the air, lol.
 
FG, please go back and RE-read my posts on this topic. I was refering to MY past experience with the white men I have dated/been in relationships with, and the Black man I am now with. I said HE was more attentive,passionate,romantic,communicative,made me feel special, etc,etc than any other man I have been with.

With that said, I do know of many white women who share in my experience (white men vs black men). And before you jump to the wrong conclusion again, I am NOT saying ALL women feel this way, or that ALL white or Black men ARE this way!lol! As far as my wondering if some BM find blonde white women more appealing over, say, brunette, I clearly said I must wonder becaue that is what my partner has a strong preference for, as well as I have heard other black men say the same thing, and I see how the major BM sport figures seem to drift to the blonde white women as well. Again, I am not saying they ALL do, but merely that I am hearing/seeing more of this, and wonder if there is something more to this. Surely you arent condemning me for WONDERING and using my brain?

I will, however, continue to LUMP all BM in a skin color catagory, even tho that appears to be objectionable to you, that being, that TO ME, they ALL are beautiful and often underappreciated. This is MY opinion and MY preference just as some men have their preferences of Asian women, or large busted women, etc. The dark skin just appeals to me, but that OBVIOUSLY doesnt mean I would ever be with someone JUST because they have dark skin. Obviously, character, heart,personality, chemistry is the major determining factor, but I wont deny that when that extra ingredient (darker skin)is added to the mix, it can make for a more passionate relationship.MY opinion.

Sorry but you jumped to some grande conclusions of your own that didnt have anything to do with what the points I was trying to convey.
 
UnChosen 1 said:
So all these WW divoricing their white hubby and moving to BM, in some cases still married to WM & looking for black dick, it must be the weather or something in the air, lol.
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Your post is very insulting to every divorced ww here; many of us who never asked to be divorced but may have found ourselves with a spouse involved in adultery. Your assumption that such women who appreciate the beauty of BM is also solely for their black penis is also hugely insulting(and immature),not only to women, but to BM as a whole as well.

is that all a man is to you: a penis?

Let me guess, and women are just vaginas?

Grow up.:smt021

With that said, from my own experience, my first crushes as a teen were of Black young men. I never acted on this preference, however, because I simply was not exposed much to BM because of the area I lived in(predominantly white). I was always attracted to darker skin tho, be it the olive skin tone of Italians, east Indians,or BM. I simply never had the opportunity. I did not go SEEKING a BM to date. I simply joined Match.com,and kept an open mind. My major attraction to him was due to to his personality,our chemistry,his well-spoken manner,his intelligence,sensitivity, our like-mindedness,and numerous other qualities. The fact he just so happens to have black skin........something I find VERY visually appealing..........simply is icing on the cake.
 
BlackWhiteAlrightLdy said:
As far as my wondering if some BM find blonde white women more appealing over, say, brunette, I clearly said I must wonder becaue that is what my partner has a strong preference for, as well as I have heard other black men say the same thing, and I see how the major BM sport figures seem to drift to the blonde white women as well. Again, I am not saying they ALL do, but merely that I am hearing/seeing more of this, and wonder if there is something more to this. Surely you arent condemning me for WONDERING and using my brain?
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Most men, regardless of skin color, seem to prefer blondes.
 
No beef, it was just how I read it. No worries.

BlackWhiteAlrightLdy said:
FG, please go back and RE-read my posts on this topic. I was refering to MY past experience with the white men I have dated/been in relationships with, and the Black man I am now with. I said HE was more attentive,passionate,romantic,communicative,made me feel special, etc,etc than any other man I have been with.

With that said, I do know of many white women who share in my experience (white men vs black men). And before you jump to the wrong conclusion again, I am NOT saying ALL women feel this way, or that ALL white or Black men ARE this way!lol! As far as my wondering if some BM find blonde white women more appealing over, say, brunette, I clearly said I must wonder becaue that is what my partner has a strong preference for, as well as I have heard other black men say the same thing, and I see how the major BM sport figures seem to drift to the blonde white women as well. Again, I am not saying they ALL do, but merely that I am hearing/seeing more of this, and wonder if there is something more to this. Surely you arent condemning me for WONDERING and using my brain?

I will, however, continue to LUMP all BM in a skin color catagory, even tho that appears to be objectionable to you, that being, that TO ME, they ALL are beautiful and often underappreciated. This is MY opinion and MY preference just as some men have their preferences of Asian women, or large busted women, etc. The dark skin just appeals to me, but that OBVIOUSLY doesnt mean I would ever be with someone JUST because they have dark skin. Obviously, character, heart,personality, chemistry is the major determining factor, but I wont deny that when that extra ingredient (darker skin)is added to the mix, it can make for a more passionate relationship.MY opinion.

Sorry but you jumped to some grande conclusions of your own that didnt have anything to do with what the points I was trying to convey.
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goodlove said:
LOL. I guess Im part of the minority....I like women with a nice shapely ass. hair color doesnt come into play.



HHMMM nice combo....



LOL. you said "wood."
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I'm with you GL. I need booty & hips. As long as her hair is presentable, I have no preference for hair color.
 
(To lazy to find the why I love white women thread)

I love white women's humor... I swear most of the white women I encounter could be bonafide comedians, even on this forum. I so wish I had y'all quick wit.
 
4north1side2 said:
(To lazy to find the why I love white women thread)

I love white women's humor... I swear most of the white women I encounter could be bonafide comedians, even on this forum. I so wish I had y'all quick wit.
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LOL. no doubt. I especially love joy behar. she sometimes can get on your nerves but she is funny. lets not forget chelsea handler
 
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