LillyBeth
New Member
My attraction is fairly recent (in the last year or two) and was a process of events, although I’ve always preferred the look of men who have olive skin, dark eyes and black hair over pale skinned blond men. It’s easier if I just explain how it all started, although part of it is a bit weird so please bear with me…
I went back to education as a mature student and befriended a man of Caribbean decent. He’s a lovely bloke, a good friend now, and although we fancy each other the timing isn’t right for either of us to get into a relationship right now. He was my first encounter with black men, and it’s all been positive; he’s an absolute sweetie.
Next thing that happened was the odd bit. I had a dream where I was being hassled at a party by an admirer, and the only person who was keeping an eye on me and ready to save me was the only black man in the place. I’m not religious or spiritual and don’t believe in guardian angels so I have no idea where it came from, but it had a profound effect on me. The “guardian” in my dream was an unknown man so not my friend, so I wracked my brain and wondered if it was an actor I’d seem on TV. It wasn’t Wil Johnson from “Waking the Dead” or Idris Elba (I’d watched “Luther” a few weeks earlier) but I Googled them out of curiosity anyway; wow, they’re tasty! Not my guardian though, but they did ignite a spark of lust for dark skin.
My attraction is purely physical, the way dark skin glows and how much better it looks on toned muscles than white skin. I’m a typical English Rose, with pale skin, blonde hair and blue eyes, and the thought of being wrapped in strong dark arms is a massive turn on; the contract would be very appealing. But I’m not anti white men at all and would date a man of any race if the attraction was there.
I went back to education as a mature student and befriended a man of Caribbean decent. He’s a lovely bloke, a good friend now, and although we fancy each other the timing isn’t right for either of us to get into a relationship right now. He was my first encounter with black men, and it’s all been positive; he’s an absolute sweetie.
Next thing that happened was the odd bit. I had a dream where I was being hassled at a party by an admirer, and the only person who was keeping an eye on me and ready to save me was the only black man in the place. I’m not religious or spiritual and don’t believe in guardian angels so I have no idea where it came from, but it had a profound effect on me. The “guardian” in my dream was an unknown man so not my friend, so I wracked my brain and wondered if it was an actor I’d seem on TV. It wasn’t Wil Johnson from “Waking the Dead” or Idris Elba (I’d watched “Luther” a few weeks earlier) but I Googled them out of curiosity anyway; wow, they’re tasty! Not my guardian though, but they did ignite a spark of lust for dark skin.
My attraction is purely physical, the way dark skin glows and how much better it looks on toned muscles than white skin. I’m a typical English Rose, with pale skin, blonde hair and blue eyes, and the thought of being wrapped in strong dark arms is a massive turn on; the contract would be very appealing. But I’m not anti white men at all and would date a man of any race if the attraction was there.
